my bfs a model and drop dead gorgeous but im worried that other girls will try and get their claws into him when hes away doing shoots...he says he loves me and is 100% faithful to me and i trust him..its just the other hos i dont trust! anything i can do to get some peace of mind?
2007-08-05 21:06:56 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont worry about it. I can see from your pic your a beautiful girl.
He'l want to come back to you. I know I would.
2007-08-05 21:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dump him and date an ugly guy who smells. Or you could just trust him and let him mess up before you judge. There is always someone who wants to date your partner whether they are a model or not and you have to trust the other person enough to be faithful and turn down the other offers. If he loves you he will anyway. If he doesn't love you and sleeps with someone else then dump him and move on. You can date the biggest reject ever and maybe get past the worry of him having an affair but do you really want to?
2007-08-05 21:26:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is either something you have or you don't, it doesn't come in shades. If you trust him then why do you care what other girls do or say? It's him you trust, not them, so you have to then think if other girls come onto him he will knock them back.
You can make it simple or you can stress about it which will in the end drive him away as relationships don't stay where there is no trust.
Peace of mind comes from security and that comes from within so chill out relax and only if he gives you cause should you worry about infidelity.
2007-08-05 21:19:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Modeling is about being a body. About being just an object. Models are judged solely on their looks.
People are about more than just looks. You value your bf because you know all about him. You care about what he cares about.
You aren't shallow and obnoxious, and you don't try too hard. But the kind of person your bf will typically meet on his shoots is exactly the opposite.
To get and keep your peace of mind, you have to get closer to him. This means opening up to him in a fearless way. Make sure your connection with him is deep and honest. Be the kind of person in your relationship that you want him to be--because he worries about your faithfulness too.
2007-08-05 21:24:02 · answer #4 · answered by Beth Rorie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bf isn't a possession, it in simple terms all unfolds and take place itself. Its human nature to be with yet another. Your depressed and aggravated considering you at the instant are not getting any male interest or bond. absolutely everyone could be depressed which incorporate your detrimental view. I cant see so a techniques how its a difficulty to you, why do you experience you will continuously be on my own - is there a undeniable reason/s? you at the instant are not in a bubble or glass field, you're area of this international aswell and characteristic in simple terms as plenty outstanding to sexual relatives through fact the subsequent individual. I cant talk for others yet i individually savor my loose time and doing what i choose and have no purpose of youngsters. I hate being tied down and despite if I did like somebody its nonetheless stressful for me provide up being on my own. being waiting to stay existence generally on my own with none undesirable feeling is a potential. those ladies would be jelous of you. there are too many adult men accessible who're each and every thing no lady might choose. i'm beneficial in case you get out and approximately to busier places or have a job or 2 you will possibly quickly have pastime - then its as much as you to be open and approachable. artwork on interests/hobbies and discover some close acquaintances first yet somewhat being on your very own isn't something to experience undesirable or offended approximately. Its a potential. It potential you have a clearer head to think of approximately what or who you honestly choose in existence, and extra freedom to discover the international to fulfill somebody worth
2016-10-09 07:50:06 · answer #5 · answered by bizier 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we have the same situation. everytime im worried as my husband is so gorgeous and gentleman and im afraid that some girls will seduce him. but you know your bf very well. if you feel that he's faithful to you, then there's nothing to be worried about. it's normal that most of the time you are being jealous coz we can't control it. but you must lessen it. it's not healthy for a relationship having insecurities. you must believe in yourself. i don't think you're not pretty. that's why you have a bf which is a model. So, cheer up girl!
2007-08-05 21:41:07 · answer #6 · answered by Mel B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to trust him.... if you don't your mind is going to play a lot of games on you and you are going to trust him less and less and you are going to be calling him every 5 minutes to find out what he's doing and who he's with.... it's going to do nothing but put a strain on your relationship.... believe me i know it's hard to always trust him when he's not right there with you..... you may also want to go along with him to some of his shoots so you know what he's doing on a normal day and so you can get to know some of the other people he's going to be around a lot so you can maybe have someone else keep an eye out for you if you need that peace of mind.
2007-08-06 04:40:36 · answer #7 · answered by Erin and Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust him then you have no need to concern yourself with other girls. You're not in a relationship with them and neither is he. You'll get peace of mind when you find someone who is not a model but even then there will be insecurities.
2007-08-05 21:10:57 · answer #8 · answered by allthatsolid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Nat, i am also a model, iv been with my girlfriend for 22 years !! i work away in London al the time and girls look at me,everywere i go a, , i get asked out to party's al the time with rich women, and i don't even think twice, my woman is all i want,
I'm sure if you give hi everything then he wont even look
xxpaul
2007-08-05 21:16:44 · answer #9 · answered by chalks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the opposite situation I am a model and my type of work I meet fantastic looking guys all the time My pictures and movies get sold in "licenced" outlets if you get my drift.
I had a b/f who was always jealous of me having sex with the other guys but it was only work and most of them got the personality of a plank.
but now I am with a guy who is in the same job and we are very happy together.
I think the answer to your question is in my experience not many models cheat if they are in a good relationship outside work so relax.
2007-08-06 01:37:18 · answer #10 · answered by jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's gunna do anything, he'll do it wether you worry or not. So enjoy him for now. Trust him. If he breaks your heart, leave him, move on & know that someone better who will love you will come along.
PS. When being with someone so hot, we sometimes fall in love with the idea of who he can be instead of who he really is. If you love him & KNOW him, trust him.
2007-08-05 21:14:36 · answer #11 · answered by judy bo-booty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋