always been the center of attention no matter what,I tried to except her b/f, but after he hollowered at me i have no respect for him what so ever!That little girl if her nose was dripping i was right there,whatever she needed she usually got,How do i get my girl back before it is to late. I just wish i had my mother back to let me know what to do,but she got killed 15yrs.ago my daughter don't understand Life is so short.even the mean things she has said to me I'll always Love her even if it does hurt.
2007-08-05 17:45:25 · 3 answers · asked by Gail G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
she just turned 18teen,and moved in with her b/f.
2007-08-05 18:02:58 · update #1
she knows the door is always open,and ahe knows how much I love her.she is my WHOLE LIFE!!!!
2007-08-05 18:24:35 · update #2
I know what you mean!!! I treated my daughter the same way!! When we have proplems we try to talk them out!!! She will be 30 next month!!! she sometimes says "mom how did you put up with me in those rough times?" I always say it's because I love you!!! I also lost my mother at a young age!!! i WISHED I had her advice during those times!! Hang in there!!! Time has a way of makeing things right
2007-08-05 18:04:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to do what you need to in your house. If that was me, I might have to say something in the lines of I will not be disrespected and if that doesn't work he would not be allowed in my house.
As for you daughter, I am not sure on the age. But if she is under 18, its your responsibility to raise her with that respect. You wouldn't believe how much other children learn from other parents then their own. We as parents set examples for not only our children but all the ones we are in contact with.
As for getting your daughter BACK. She will be getting older and it will be hard letting go. It's going to be hard watching her get her own ideas and seeing her pull away from you. But if you stick to raising her lovingly and showing respect to her and teaching her that respect. She may rebail at times...but after she is mature and grown. She will understand you and pull closer to you.
I was so like that as a teenager. I HATED my parents. They were so unfair and mean...but now as a 33 yr parent. I respect how I was raised and see NOW they were doing their jobs. I can say "they did a wonderful job raising me" and love them unconditionally!
Just ALWAYS repeat "I Love you, and the door is always open" always let her know no matter what fights you and her have, you will always love her and want her around. but it can't be a mechanically phrase...you have to mean and sound like you mean it.
2007-08-06 01:13:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are these teens or grown ups? If she is a teen, then stop spoiling her and make her accountable. Tell the b/f to take a hike, if you are paying her bills, then what goes on in your house is none of his business.
If this is a grown up woman, on her own and you are not supporting her, then let her be. Its normal for a daughter to strike out on her own. She'll come back when she gets alittle older and realizes that she needs you. In the mean time, get a life and stop depending on your daughter to provide it.That's not her job.
2007-08-06 00:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋