im 22 and iv been a dancer for eight months. i started just to pay bills and i want a real job but it pays good and i didnt go to college or graduate high school. i have a 4 year old boy and i gotta pay for school and stuff. i cant find a real relationship cuz no guys respect what i do. i dont know what other work i can find. what should i do??
2007-08-05 13:12:14 · 6 answers · asked by ♥...........♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think that it's so much that they cannot respect you. I think there is more to this. I think you have a hard time respecting yourself and wonder if your son could ever respect you when you have a job like that. Start out with taking some night classes. Look into adult education programs in your area. You need to get your GED. If there is a junior college around you, call them an ask if they offer the GED or classes or knows someone that does. They can help you out.
Once you get your GED, start with with a junior college. It will take some time, but you can do it. Start slow. File for financial aid to get help paying for college. Some college loans can even pay for your normal bills. Also, you can get public housing if you need help with bills. If you file for financial aid, ask about work study. It's a way that you can earn money on campus that will help with bills and college. You have to start somewhere. As hard as it is, the first thing you need to do is get out of that job.
2007-08-05 13:27:19 · answer #1 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to relaize is that if your good at it and you like it I don't see nothing wrong with what your doing. But some guys won't give respect to a dog so I wouldn't worry about what them idiots think. ALl you have to think about is hey you probably make more than them that's why they don't liek to go out with someone like you. I on the other hand don't care what you do or where you work, it all comes down to what's inside of you that counts with me. So want to caht more just IM me anytime. And also do as much as you can to help your son have a good future. I am impressed with you and also have my repect too. ALso you can see if you can get a secretary job or something you think you can do. But don't let comments from guys or girls discourage you from providing for you and your son. SO have a nice day beautiful.
2007-08-05 13:44:42 · answer #2 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your just making money & nothing else.Than forget the guys an do your job only. Till something better happens you can always move to another town and start over. Be Safe.
2007-08-05 13:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go back to school
stop stripping
work on supporting your son
then try and find a guy
2007-08-05 13:18:40 · answer #4 · answered by Sebastian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Email me.
2007-08-05 13:17:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to McDonald's or something and get your GED
2007-08-05 13:16:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋