Do you believe in sex before marriage?

Question

Thanks for the input so far, been interesting reading your responses.

Answer 1

Yes.. I do.. As a future couple, we check each other out in compatibility, finance, health, maturity etc. And if that is a norm,. why can't we check out our sex compatibility?

Answer 2

I do not believe in having sex with everyone you talk to or like before marriage. But I think that in this day in age, we have to be realistic and face the fact that the majority of people are going to have sex before marriage. I dont see anything wrong with sex between an unmarried couple who are in love and have had a serious relationship for a long time. Sex is an important part of a strong relationship and if both people feel that it is the right choice for them then why not. I know that this may not go with the religious aspect of things, but thats just my opinion.

Answer 3

I do think that's is not only a good idea but also very important to have sex before marriage providing both partners agree.Sex is a very important factor in any marriage. If sex is not enjoyed to the full by either party the marriage will not last long. If you don't get alone in bed you wont do much better with the rest of your relationship.

Answer 4

Well, I believe in sex and I believe in marriage. I don't necessarily think young teens should be having sex, but since most people are getting married in their 20's and 30's these days (rather than right after high school), it's pretty far-fetched to expect people to remain virgins that long. I certainly don't condone promiscuity, but sex in the context of a loving, committed relationship (with or without a marriage license) is definitely a good thing!

Answer 5

To enter into marriage without first ensuring compatibility in the most important aspect of the relationship is to court disaster.
If either party feels so indifferent to sex that it can be left until after a lifelong commitment has been made, the other party should really make his or her excuses and leave.

Answer 6

Hmmm this one is a little bit tricky to give a full answer and I think by far that as long as you are mature enough to carry this out then you are mature enough to make the right desition but only to the extent that it comes purely from the heart as 2 hearts becoming one to join and touch The Heart Of God........so if you still dont understand then check out the link below maybe it will bring you to truly decide the moral path to take

Answer 7

I married the only two women with whom I had sex before marriage. I was married to my first wife for 27 years and am still married to my second wife after 21 years. There have been no extramarital affairs during either marriage.

Answer 8

The sex drive ranks right up there with hunger drive and self preservation so I think it's EXTREMELY important to know if you're sexually compatible with the person you are promising to spend the rest of your life with. Sex is an issue that has come between many, many, couples and unless you know, before you marry, it's just a stroke of luck if you happen to be sexually compatible. It's too important to take lightly.

Answer 9

Well i dont believe in marriage anymore, its a lot of money for one day and a certificate, me and my man have a wonderful relationaship and 2 children without having to stand infront of people to declare it. I never jumped into bed with just anyone though i'd like to make that quite clear i wanted to make sure i was going to have a strong relationship with someone first.

Answer 10

Sex before marriage, yes. Sex without love, no.

Answer 11

yes, as sex is a perfectly natural human thing to do, whereas marriage is not- its man made. therefore sex will always be more naturally first.

marriage is a legal thing, and long before there were laws and courts- there was sex. that kind of says it all!