Am a mother and am i a relationship with my son father but it seem that he don't want to be more?

Question

what do i do?
I want something more like I love him and i want to be marry but all we do is fight and makeup all the time
should stay here or just stop this relation now

Answer 1

Try counseling if that doesnt work than leave the relationship you will do more harm to your child if you stay together unhappilly

Answer 2

First of all, you cannot force a person to give more of themselves than they are willing to give. Even if he is willing to go to counseling with you there is work that has to be done to maintain a relationship. From what I'm hearing he sounds like he's only in it for the sex. All that fighting and making up is neither good for you nor your child. Being married is not the answer. Being married to the right person is. Just because you have had a child with someone does not guarantee happily ever after. Not that anything does but think long and hard about why you want to marry this particular guy, and remember this "because I love him" is not a good enough answer. Love is important in a marriage, but it's not everything. A good marriage needs more than love to survive.

Answer 3

Never anchor yourself to an abusive relationship no matter what the situation may involve. You shouldn't remain together for the sake of the child; for all the child is doing is learning this behavior and cycle of abusiveness. Nor for the sake of love because love has to be reciprocated unequivocally.
Lose the loser and bring some stability into your life; your child's life. And save your love
for someone who truly deserves it.
Go forth and find something better in your life. You're worth it. Good luck and all.
Love, peace and happiness.

Answer 4

You have to decide whether your relationship is a positive influence on your son.

It is always best for a child to have two parents who are together and who love eachother BUT that is if they are in love and happy - honestly a child needs a stable environment, if you are fighting all the time then that is not a good influence or example for your son. You both need to do what is best for your child, its not about you anymore.

All the best, hope it works out for you.

Answer 5

ignore them........it's really a sign of low self-esteem. Especially when you have to amp yourself up. There nothing wrong with being self-confident but some people take it to the extreme.

Answer 6

I under stood what you said after reading it twice. Next time you might want to read what you wrote before you hit submit.

Answer 7

move on to better places with someone who doesn't always fight with you

Answer 8

another kid out of wedlock....good job