okay, iv been in love with a woman that i dont wanna be in love with,,,my parents dont really like her much and i dont think she's the woman of my dreams,,,,,,,i prayed and i cryed and i kept praying,,,, its been about 3 years now,, and that feeling is just getting worse,,,,, what does the bible say about this? how can i get rid of the feelings? or shall i go for that love i feel so deeply that i cant sleep? and im that womans friend,,,and she has a boyfriend but i dont care i can make her leave him!
i really need the help of christ.
2007-08-05 11:31:27 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
i said shes NOT the woman of my dreams.
in short im in love with some one i dont want to be in love with.
i think about her every morning and night and through the day, i cant stop it
2007-08-05 11:51:58 · update #1
Let me get this straight, you are in love with someone you don't want to be in love with, someone who it's the woman of your dreams.
Perhaps you should use your upper head more.
2007-08-05 11:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just sounds like youve grown attached to her even though you dont really love her. Its just an attachment. That used to happen to friends of mine that were girls who Id sleep with before I beame a Christian. Then, even though love isnt your goal, a bond forms between you that shouldnt be there unless you two are married.
If you are looking to Christ for help, you came to the right place. Jesus taught us as believers to seek Gods kingdom first and not worldly things. you are too focused on worldly things and that is what has power of you currently.
2007-08-05 11:49:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Up until the point where you said you need the help of christ, that had all the makings of a song by The Fine Young Cannibals.
2007-08-05 11:37:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you not think shes the woman of your dreams? you've wanted her for three years now. why don't your parents like her and why does that matter to you, for she is yours not your parents. unless theres a really good reason I would say give into your love.
2007-08-05 11:35:28 · answer #4 · answered by infinite2678 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must love self-endured punishment.if you love her so much.why,don't you respect her??? she's with someone else.if you had this woman,you would want others to respect that she's with you.and you would expect them to stay away from her. would you want a relationship to begin with mutual trust .i think you are not in "love" ,if you've been chasing this dream 3 yrs.,it's an obsession. you are in a relationship all by yourself. you deserve better.start going out on dates with other ladies. get rid of pictures of this girl or anything that reminds you of her.there's another reason your obsessed with her.and it probably has nothing at all to do with who she really is. Take care!
2007-08-05 11:46:20 · answer #5 · answered by need2know 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you only get a finite shot at love. Go for love.
They only way to not be in love with someone is to allow things to run it's course. If you're not ready to give up on her, follow your heart.
2007-08-05 11:39:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-11 07:37:23 · answer #7 · answered by tito 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your in lust not love.remember there is three types of love.
1.agapy love; unconditional love,gods love
2.philo love; this is a friendship love,brotherly love
3.eros love;this is were we get erotic from,sexual love,
i think you have the eros love for her now.if she is taken then BACK OFF before something happens to you.
2007-08-05 11:39:46 · answer #8 · answered by ronbo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Commas hate other commas. That's why you shouldn't put at next to each other. Right bad scene
2007-08-05 11:37:20 · answer #9 · answered by ryoma136 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋