Sometimes when my boyfriend makes a quick run to get some food(ex. fast food, he never asks if I'm hungry too?

Question

Isn't this rude? I don't want to bring this up because I don't want to sound petty and nag like. Is this just a man thing or a rude boyfriend?

Answer 1

next time, when he's right by the door and about to walk out say "Oh no thanks honey, I don't want anything but thank you for asking, that was very considerate!" He will get the message.

Answer 2

Everyone has habits that can be considered rude. Sometimes men (as well as women!) don't think something through, and aren't purposely being rude. The advice previously given, such as asking him to pick you up something is good, or you may need to be more direct. Sit him down and tell him that you think it's a little inconsiderate of him not to even ask if you want anything. Another approach would be making a joke about it. Maybe a sarcastic joke, if that's how your relationship works. My response to this ideal situation would be "Yes, thank you for asking! I would love something from (insert fast food here)". But only use that approach if sarcasm is a standard language between you two, or it will come off bitchy ;)

Good luck :)

Answer 3

First, does he bring you back anything at all?? Not asking yet bringing something back anyways could be that he just forgot to ask or that he knows what you like... but that's grasping at straws.
Do you actually see what he brings back? or does he "eat it in the car"? How long do these trips take??
I guess what I'm asking these for, is because impulsive urges to up and run on a whim should be a big red flag for you. If you feel in your gut that something is wrong, well then sweety interogate him until you are satisfied. A woman's gut instinct rarely is wrong. I wouldn't be suprised if he wasn't being totally faithful.

Answer 4

I heard Waffle residing house sucks, so does White fort, from a buddy I heard his pancakes at an IHOP have been chilly. yet from own reports Hardee's suck. Or as i admire to call em, Hardeedeedee's. Their loos are filthy, meals sits out for over 3 hours, and their meat is all fat. the main suitable quickly meals eating place is Burger King. sparkling, good meals, and enormous provider.

Answer 5

I pointed your question out to my husband, because he does the same thing. his perspective it that I should speak up because men sometime just don't think about things like we do.... but personally I still think it is rude. If you love me, shouldn't you think to ask if I am hungry too?

Answer 6

You're right, that is rude of him. Perhaps before he places his order you could request that he get you something, and offer to pay for your food. This isn't a huge deal though, so try not to let it bother you.

Answer 7

This sounds rude to me too. It's common courtesy to ask. Just ask him why he doesn't ask you if you want something. If obviously bothers you so don't let it slide. He may not even realize it, so give him that chance to hear your problem and possibly try to change.

Answer 8

No that is so rude especially if he brings it back to your house to eat.. I would joke with him next time about you not wanting something.

I don't know how close you are, he might not want to spend money on you..

Answer 9

I definitely consider this to be a tad rude. My fiancee would be pretty peeved if I did that sort of thing. But please don't be too upset about it. I think a lot of guys don't realize that most women find this to be rude.

Answer 10

that is kind of rude... ouch. I don't know what to say. Talk to him about it, tell him how you feel. Or whenever he leaves to go get food, say " Hey, wait- I'm hungry too!!"