i have seen him out the past couple years and he always tried talking to me but i would blow him off)i was still hooked on my x and for some reason just never into him)he would buy me drinks but then I would disappear and talk to another guy.well i saw him out about a month ago(im now over my x)he looked adorable and things seemed okay till i drank a little too much and i think i looked stupid,so i found him on myspace the next day and sent him a message apologizing,he did not respond,so i sent him another message the next morning saying'your suppose to accept my apology'he responded with'im pacing myself'and a smily face.so i sent him a freidn request a week later,he accepted.2 weeks after sent him another message asking him to get together sometime,he replied with"owtay"and then asked which salon i work at,so i replied with "why,you need a haircut?" and no response.should i mesage him again?
2007-08-05 06:25:25 · 4 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, and stop playing with him.
2007-08-05 06:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by linds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right, I personally think you two have switched relationship roles--he's supposed to be chasing you, not the other way around. Stop contacting him, then he'll start to wonder if you've lost interest, THEN he'll want you--it's a guy thing. The thing is, with technology and all that, girls are trying to control the way they're relationship is moving along with a guy, but you can't really change nature, you know what i mean? Guys are programmed to chase girls, psychologically its called "hunting"--i know its wierd, but still...guys like the 'hunt'. Don't get me wrong, its really sweet that you want to be with this guy and want to talk to him, but if you're making all the moves, then all he thinks he has to do is sit back and watch you work out your relationship. I think maybe you should plan out your next few days, do something with some of your friends, plan a little outing, go to the movies and try to forget about this guy--if he calls, BINGO! if not, well, at least you didn't do anything to seem foolish.
Also, about the night that you drank: drinking is okay, really, but when you're sober, remember that people around you, if they really do care for you, will still respect you. You didn't have to appologize to him. Have a little bit of pride and demand to be treated with a bit more respect, if he can't reciporcate...i think you know where i'm going with this one. As a woman, you have to let a guy know that you're worth it, and appologizing all the time, messaging all the time, talking to him all the time, doesn't really give him that impression.
Good luck!
2007-08-05 06:53:01 · answer #2 · answered by Nina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-08-05 06:35:21 · answer #3 · answered by zelda l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes things seemed to be going good for the time u were talking so maybe he didnt get the message or someone else logged into this account
2007-08-05 06:35:23 · answer #4 · answered by Princess LovAngel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋