Maybe trying to be nice is the wrong way?
2007-08-05 05:23:28 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
MMmmm Link, not sure, need to go a bit WILD.
GGGGRRRRRrrrrr!!!!!!!
2007-08-05 05:28:42 · update #1
Being nice to be appreciated? Yeh, it's tiring and the wrong way.
2007-08-05 08:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
answer from Thai Buddhist guy:
I understand you all so I will be please if you try to make the great change, Buddism said that there are like - dislike, love - hate, and there is the middle way between the two couple. Make up your mind by putting down and the way you find is happy. Your feel is no hot, no cold, no love, no hate and nothing in your head and you don't need to be nice to anyone. Wings for keeping and tails for avoiding. Good or bad depend on you. Sa..tu.
2007-08-05 05:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by Kanes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, you think I've been too nice. After all I've done to be thought of as a turd, and you still think I've been too nice. Well, I'm just going to have to reevaluate the persona I thought I was presenting to the losers here on Yahoo! Answers. If I was truly nice, as you seem to think, I would thank you for the heads-up but since I'm not, I won't.
2007-08-05 05:32:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 01:21:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why try to be nice?You are either nice or your not.Don't muck around with it.Ask Oscar The Grouch he reckons its great being a grump and not being nice all day.
2007-08-05 19:42:22 · answer #5 · answered by melbournewooferblue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah Kinda - It Just Gets Flung Back At You
2007-08-05 05:37:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
after 30 years of being nice i realised nice people get walked all over, but when i try to be hard faced i suffer with terrible guilt. (probably cos im nice really) x
2007-08-05 07:05:20 · answer #7 · answered by doobie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It could be that 'trying' to be nice is a problem for you. Why not just BE a nice person? A nice person can be assertive without hurting another person's feelings, done correctly.
2007-08-05 05:28:53 · answer #8 · answered by laurel g 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Never let others change who you are. If you are nice stay nice. The rest is on them. There bag of crap, not yours.
Don't get discouraged doing the Loving thing. Peace be with you.
Rev. TomCat
2007-08-05 05:29:02 · answer #9 · answered by Rev. TomCat 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The dance of energy goes one way and then the other. I myself feel it now as indecision but we are the knowers of this energy first, the first cause. If one can relax and feel it it will pass or one can become it and it will pass, anyway it will pass.
2007-08-05 08:06:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll never feel that way. It makes me feel good to be nice to others. It makes others feel better also. No one in their right mind wants to be treated like crap.
2007-08-05 05:35:52 · answer #11 · answered by loveblue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋