Can you give me some tips on how to win back my x who i love very much. I am seeing him for the 1st time in 8 weeks during the week and i need some tips on what to do and how to be??
2007-08-05 04:40:25 · 21 answers · asked by bluebell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be you. If he doesn't like that, to hell with him.
2007-08-05 04:43:09 · answer #1 · answered by open4one 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to be, but be yourself. Why do you want to win back your ex? There is a reason why he is your ex in the first place. You can't make the guy love you if it isn't in his heart. If he is wanting to see you, I would suggest letting him make the first move. Whatever you do, don't sleep with the guy thinking that it will win him over because it won't. The only one that will be hurt is you. Be strong. Hold yourself together like a lady. He will respect you for that.
2007-08-05 04:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be flirtacious,let him know you like him. Don't tell him you love him straight away until you know he feels the same way or even he says it to you first. Don't try to hard, just be yourself, smile. He will know the real you eventually anyway so don't try and be someone you're not. Compliment him but not all of the time. All guys like to made to feel special not in a clingy way. We're complicated but not as complicated as women that i will never know. If he's not a really nice guy Just being slutty will work to get him in bed but probably wont keep him in your life all men like sex but we do loose respect if it is given over too easily.
Hope i could help ;)
2007-08-05 04:53:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know why you 2 split, do things that show an improved you. Dont be the exact same person that you were, Let the other person bring up the past first, but dont dwell on it!!!
Dont let this just be a hook-up unless that's what you want
2007-08-05 04:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by DRIVER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself.
If you split cos you were arguing over certain issues try to resolve them first or you'll end up arguing again and getting no-where. Problems need to be resolved or they'll rear up again at some point.
Try not to appear desperate, act cool and calm, and definately don't have sex with him yet.
If it's meant to be it'll all fall into place and happen naturally.
Good luck x
2007-08-05 04:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should say " heya you free this holiday" if he says yes you should ask him if he wants to go somewhere where you both love like the cinema or something.If he isnt seeing anyone else then you should ask him if he will go back out with you. Im gunna ask my x the same thing so good luck hun x
2007-08-05 04:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you split? If it was your fault there is not much you can do but if it was his fault then you can just be yourself. It sounds like you all are already back on the path of making a relationship. Exes don't just meet up to fight right!
2007-08-05 04:45:38 · answer #7 · answered by Kathrine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like everyone else has said try to be yourself.. i know its easier said than done but try not to try too hard... it will look too obvious and you run the risk of looking / sounding desperate. If it was meant to be then nothing will keep you apart.
Look happy to see him but not over the top... and don`t dwell on whatever it was that split you up... that never goes down well. Act relaxed and keep your head held high,.. be confident but not overconfident.
Have fun and good luck. x
2007-08-05 04:51:50 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. If he wants to get back with you then it will happen. The last thing you should do is pretend to be someone you're not because he'll see right through it. Good luck.
2007-08-05 05:18:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be Your Self. If He Loves You He will come back. If not dont worry, I'm sure You can find Someone that will love You for who You are.
2007-08-05 04:44:10 · answer #10 · answered by thornrez1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why was he your X in the first place?
2007-08-05 04:44:05 · answer #11 · answered by Mario N 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋