How many of you actually think that someone who smokes pot recreationally is unable to care for their children

Answer 1

If they're high when they're in charge of the kids, NO, they can't care for them. They might get lucky and nothing bad happen, but they're screwed if an emergency should arise.

I don't care how 'recreational' it is - no decent human being gets high in front of their kids. And from experience I can tell you that no matter how much the user thinks they can 'maintain', they cannot properly react to a small child or even a small emergency when they're high. It's just wishful thinking.

This question baffles me. Why would anyone even TRY to accomplish such a thing?

Answer 2

Well, I think that people who have to resort to illegal recreation is unable to care for their children, because I think there's something to be said for teaching children to respect the law of the land.

However, I wouldn't push the issue unless they smoked pot recreationally while their children were in their care. If they leave their children with a responsible sitter for a reasonable amount of babysitter time, and then decide to smoke pot, making sure their kids never know about it and are never in their care while they are experiencing the effects of the drug, then I have less of a problem with it.

By a "reasonable" amount of babysitter time, I mean I think all parents need some time away from their kids to have a night out. I don't think it should be every weekend, but if that's what the parent chose t do on his or her "night out", as long as it is rare, it's up to them.

Any parent that would smoke pot while children are around, while they are supposed to be the responsible adult in charge, or who would put themselves in danger doing something like driving under the influence, yes, I think those parents are "unable to care for their children." They are putting their "recreational" drug use over the health, safety and well-being of their kids.

Answer 3

I feel qualified to answer this question as a non pot smoker and daughter of a pot smoker. My mother was NOT able to care for me properly because of the pot. I never had decent school clothes because she spent her extra cash on pot, and I was lonely all the time because she was too busy being high to spend any time on me. She was an embarrasment in front of my friends. I am now 30 and still resent her for not being there for me. Smoking pot isn't a good reason to alienate your children from you. Please stop.

Answer 4

The question isn't whether or not they can physically take care of a child or whether or not they can "handle" their weed. And it isn't even whether or not pot SHOULD be legal . The fact of the matter is that they are partaking in an illegal activity. Just as someone who goes out at night robbing the neighborhood could still easily get up the next morning and be the sweetest mommy/daddy, they still have judgement that is somewhat clouded considering they are disregarding the rules of the society they choose to live in. For the record, I think weed should be legalized and taxed as it would loose it's appeal and could bring in money for the state, but as it is still illegal, I believe those who break the law have clouded judgement so I would be concerned about them taking care of children.

Answer 5

I don't think it is a terrible thing to do recreationally - just don't do it around or in front of the kids. Some people unwind with a drink, some unwind with some smoke. As long as the kids are properly cared for in every other aspect, who's business is it if that's what you do in your own personal time. The people I have a problem with are the f***ing crackheads, alcoholics, and methheads who can't take care of themselves, much less their kids. The ones that leave their kids in a nasty house, with little to no food, and don't give a crap what happens to them. If you are responsible 99.999% of the time, I think you are allowed to smoke a joint and relax and that does not make you a bad parent or person,

Answer 6

People who dont smoke pot lump everyone who does together. People who do smoke pot understand the differences.

Smoking pot as an adult rather than a teenager can be a very different experience. I know alot of parents who smoke pot and dont miss a beat. Its different than when we were teens and smoked so much that all you would do is pass out.

Also as adults they are likely to be much more educated about pot (and believe me its all about science). I cant say I ever met a teen who knew what the adults know about it.


I am generalizing and I do realize that there will always be that special group of people who are just off from everyone else.

Answer 7

I don't think that all people who do it are unable to take care of their children, but I do think it slows down the reaction time. I also think it is wrong, as a parent, to smoke it in front of your children. Not only does it stink, but it also can cause problems with their breathing, attitude problems, CPS can take your children away from you for smoking it because it is still ILLEGAL, and it teaches them that it is okay to do drugs. If you are doing it, please don't do it around your children, they deserve better respect than that.

Answer 8

I think it depends on the person...
Some people can smoke pot & still function & raise their kids great... I know plently of parents like this....
Some people cant handle it.... They smoke & then act like total idiots regarding their kids...

I personally think that if your a parent & you smoke pot, just dont do it around your kid!!!

Answer 9

I think it depends on the individual. I know quite a few "functional potheads." These are people who smoke pot quite regularly but still provide wonderful attention to their children, are able to financially provide for their family, does not let the drug control their life, and does not let the family miss out on things due to drug use.

I have also met the other side of the coin. The person who neglects their child and will do anything to get high first. People who would rather buy drugs than buy diapers and food.

So really its dependent on the person. If someone is able to make it work and it truly does not interfere with the wellbeing and balance of the family household, then do as you please.

Answer 10

I may get thumbs down for this but whatever, when my daughter goes to sleep i go outside and smoke so i can sleep at night, i get calmed down and relaxed, there really is nothing wrong with it. I'm not doing it when she is awake nor in front of her, i know parents who smoke can be great parents, my dad did it and I'm fine as can be, great job and family. There are people who can't but there are people who can. There are 2 sides to everyone.