My boyfriend who usually is very sweet and such said im fat. Then he said just joking right after and maybe he thought it wouldnt offend me but it actually did. he does kid around alot but i just cant get those words out of my head!!
Im 5'5 and 115 pounds..is that alot?
He's 6'2 and im not sure about how much he weighs.
people say i look like a midget next to him and such :[ are they trying to offend me or really mean it?
i mean we do have some height difference but i never knew i looked so short next to him..what do you guys think?
is 5'5 short for a 16 year old?
and is 6'2 short or tall for a 18 year old?[cause i dont think so]
idk things offend me too easily
2007-08-05 01:55:58 · 18 answers · asked by Cattttt32 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
after he said that it only feels like he's looking at me like a fat midget so im always nervous. did any of this happen to you guys also?
2007-08-05 02:00:21 · update #1
1st 115 isn't fat and 5"5" isn't short
your a little to self-conscience and are worrying about some very trivial things. i truly think your boyfriends joke was just that, a joke
2nd why is it so important what other people think, will they care for you when your old, sick, or hurt. will they feed you when your hungry. remember one thing "opinions are like buttholes, everyone has one and usually there full of crap"
3rd there are so many bad things going on in the world, but someone says something and you take it like they're are completely criticizing your very existence.
please sit down and really read what you wrote and treat it as someone you never met wrote it, now give an honest answer to all the questions
tc
2007-08-05 02:09:34 · answer #1 · answered by tencar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it doesnt sound like youre fat at all, 115lb isnt a lot for anyone of your height, so its likely that your boyfriend was joking around unless he likes really really skinny girls.
5'5 is around average for a 16 year old girl and 6'2 is probably a little above average for an 18 year old guy. If people say you look short next to him dont worry about it, its probably not meant offencively and if you really like him, it shouldnt bother you. If youre that worried, wear heels.
2007-08-05 09:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by Lucy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, I agree. NO, you aren't fat. You just gotta get past this "he said, she said" stuff and concentrate on what's important.
1. Groom immaculately
2. Dress nicely
3. Study harder than ever
4. Spend an hour a day in the library
5. Spend an hour a day at the gym
6. Honor your parents and your teachers
7. Get involved in a worthy school function
8. Volunteer a few hours a week for a worthy cause
9. Help someone every day
10. Go to Church
11. SMILE
12. Speak badly of no one
Good Luck
2007-08-05 09:02:13 · answer #3 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are skinny and average size for a woman! im sure if your bf thought of you as a fat midget he would not be attracted to you and you guys would have broken up already so no im sure he finds your image perfect. You probably do look short next to him hes like almost a foot taller! you cant help that but you probably look tall compared to others so chill woman!
2007-08-05 09:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by xo_electriclime_kiwis_xo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're taking it too personal. 5'5 and 115 is a long way from fat. He just opened his mouth and made a bad joke before he thought about it.
2007-08-05 09:01:27 · answer #5 · answered by sticks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
According to the Panel on Energy, Obesity, and Body Weight Standards as published in American Journal of Clinical Nutrition, your category is desirable.
2007-08-05 09:11:24 · answer #6 · answered by Scabius Fretful 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5'5" 115. hmm that makes him sound like an A$$ more than you being fat.
2007-08-05 09:03:37 · answer #7 · answered by lostokieboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound fat, but why does it matter what he says? What's wrong with being short? I'm 5'6" at 30 years old. I'm not growing anymore, and I'm OK with that!!
2007-08-05 09:00:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump him call him fat back that is a real jerk right there. and trust me your not fat. And it doesnt matter bout size or height it just matters if you guys like eachother
best of luck
2007-08-05 09:07:42 · answer #9 · answered by martha s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
115 pounds no you are not fat!!! and you are not to short either because people have different heights!
2007-08-05 09:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by jenae new 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋