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I had one with all my clothes one in a John Bradshaw seminar on "The Homecoming"! The method involved sharing grief by moment regressing with present day non judgemental witnesses, active listenning, empathy, sympathy and affirmation!

20 seconds into the affirmation I felt it and wow. I couldn't take it any more, so I said stop. And from this experience and my life as it has been, I gave it a name, and it has been my religion ever since. It is a very healing feeling that comes with this. I can't imagine anyone choosing drugs or adultery or any sins of a material sense, above this.

I have wondered how many people have had this happen to them and or would be interested in it? Most I meet are stuck on their worrying about heaven and hell in traditional church settings and kinda stuck there. Some I witness are caught up in adulterous and bisexual situations. I wonder how this would have worked out for them?

Healing be unto you

2007-08-05 01:16:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

The experience involved a time when I was 7 and my dad beat me with a 1 x 3 board for not going out to play in front of my aunts and uncles and grandmother, all who just sat there and put up with it. I got bruised from it and it happenned after that too many times and in one case at the age of 16 in front of the whole neighborhood because my brothers and sisters would not come in for supper "right away". I was supposed to be the messenger. Five siblings. My dad was a little messed up but I still love him.

So the group I was in discharged anyone judgemental. Then we got started. I wrote my experience down on a piece of paper using my less dominant writing hand. I was 26 at the time and was trying to get in touch with my feelings of being that 7 year old.

So I read my scribble off to the group. Each person in the group then said back to me what happenned til everyone had given feedback to my satisfaction that they got what happenned.

2007-08-05 01:42:57 · update #1

Then each person gave sympathy, saying things like, "Awe, that shouldn't have happenned!" and "You poor thing!", "That was a terrible thing that happenned to you!". Some were more specific, while my seven year old self listenned in.

Of course I had never had that kind of treatment before and I felt pretty good that somebody cared because up to this point, all I heard from my closest friends and relatives was stuff like, "You gotta toughen up!" or "I will go over and punch him if you want!". But that is not what I wanted, and I really didn't know what would make me feel whole.

After the sympathy came empathy. Things like "I would never have let that happen to you had I been there!" and "I could not let that happen to you if I were there!" and "I would have gotten up and gotten in his face!" and more and more protective things of me validating that what happenned to me was horrific and should never have happenned in a civilized world! Now I was feeling more whole.

2007-08-05 01:49:52 · update #2

So then after they had said how I must have felt and what they would have done had they been there, I was feeling like some connected force of caring, some part of my being actually cared. See, my mistreatment from my childhood abuse, had me feeling like I didn't count, like nobody should care and like I should just be a slave and work myself into a tizzy and put up with mistreatment and die, preferrably as soon as possible... at that time. Through this experience of shared forgiveness including assertive active listenning, sympathy and empathy communication, I now felt like somebody wanted me to live and valued my companionship, even strangers and that perhaps this force of caring resided in us all waiting to be tapped? What a wonderful reason to be living, even if to begin to see that unfold as it will from all these living sources! I was feeling pretty darn good to this point!

2007-08-05 01:55:10 · update #3

Then came the whipped cream of it all with the cherry on top! Affirmation! They started rotating and whisperring what some would call, "sweet nothings" in my ear, welcoming messages that they thought that I missed in life that might be a spiritual injection into my makeup. And boy did they inject!

Things like, "I am glad you were born!", "You are special!", "I am glad you have feelings!", and so on and so forth, all of these things having more meaning because these were already people who had demonstrated that they cared about me, strangers, that gave their time and effort to help me with my problem! Go figure......and I could feel the love! I could feel my life's energy that had been beaten down, surrendering to this love and from deep in my belly came a physical feeling, similar to a sexual orgasm but not of the genitilia, unbelievable feeling of extasy! And I felt more than whole! And yet, I was whole! I felt intense healing and healing energy in me! It was fantastic!

2007-08-05 02:01:47 · update #4

And it changed my life forever! And I share it when I can and I try to live my entire life as a Forgive Affirmed Spirit! It is my reason for living! And yet, I have not had a Forgive Affirmed Spiritual orgasm in many years. The first is the only one I have ever had.

I surmise that it would be easy for people who have had physical mistreatment to go through this rather easily. Those whose mistreatment was not physical may have harder times being in touch with and sharing their pain, but I see no reason why they might not be also able to achieve this fantastic feeling!

There were 5000 other people at this seminar in Boston. Probably 1000 of them had the same experience. I could hear the moans and groans at times in the room and they had counselors there to help deal with the trauma of this extasy!

I gave it a name and fit it into religion to live my life by. Personally, I feel if people wer doing this they would give up drugs and physical body pleasures for this.

2007-08-05 02:08:13 · update #5

I believe that Jesus, when he was in his healing moments was in Forgive Affirmed Spirit.

Remember when he asked, quite often, "Who do you say that I am?"

That was like me or other injured people saying, "Look! Here are my wounds, my boo boos, can you help me?".

Jesus was injured after he was insulted when he talked to crowds that were against him. It must have been hard to take some of the heckling and the insults that he got from people that did not agree with him wholly! How was he gonna heal from all of that? Perhaps he got some positive feedback from his close friends and relatives?

And so probably he learned to ask for what he needed? "Ask and it will be given unto you!"? "Seek and you shall find!"?

And so the apostles said back to him in affirming voice and words, a great compliment of that time, "You are the Only Begotten Son of God!". And Jesus probably had a Forgive Affirmed Spiritual Orgasm that prepared him for more healing(s) from those times.

2007-08-05 02:16:23 · update #6

I do not mean to be disrespectful to your religion. This is just something that I consider beautiful that happenned in my life that I thought you might like to hear about!

Healing be unto you
I am a Forgive Affirmed Spirit

2007-08-05 02:18:03 · update #7

Consider, God is love, that the human sexual genital orgasm has dual purposes including physical pleasure .....to multiply the species.

Consider that this spiritual orgasm could have a dual purpose of creating a healing capability in the person who has the experience! Perhaps of touch or of the way they speak afterwards, or write.

I don't think I am any more special than you. I am saying that humans are possibly missing a mark here by ignoring this experience and sometimes instead seeking sexual orgasm and or drug highs in that process of ignorance.

I don't blame anybody. I am just attempting to show people what happenned to me.

Could this be a part of the Greater Works of John 14 12 that Jesus predicted?

The only way to know, is to experience it yourself. Give up your ego. Humble yourself and be born of this spirit, then judge. I did and I got a nice surprise.

Healing be unto you.

2007-08-07 01:37:38 · update #8

10 answers

I've never heard of this before, could you tell me more about it please?

2007-08-05 01:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by tripleateam 2 · 1 0

Wow, John Bradshaw must be HOT!!

You should start a cult called "Forgive Affirmed Spiritual Whole Body Orgasm," or at least write a book with the same name- you'd make million$!!

2007-08-12 08:56:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Can anyone equate a God experience with and orgasm?

Religion is not a sexual fantasy...at least when it comes to God our father.

Finding a substitute for sexual needs through a spiritual experience. God has no part in that. You are still lusting after your flesh.

Psalm 50. God is just but he is God. Romans chapter one.

2007-08-05 01:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by God is love. 6 · 3 1

I never thought of relating sex with God, it kind of like a dirty thing defiling God, so to speak. The excitement i get when the Spirit hits me is that I want to sing,i want to,dance, i want to clap my hands and shout, i want to praise the Lord out loud, because he set my heart on fire with love,holy love.

2007-08-11 01:12:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

points

2007-08-11 16:04:44 · answer #5 · answered by Answers 3 · 0 0

What's happened to your counselor?

2007-08-12 05:01:31 · answer #6 · answered by cheir 7 · 0 0

you need Jesus in your life desperately.

2007-08-12 10:02:30 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0 1

I can't imagine not choosing sex.

2007-08-05 01:21:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

An orgasm.............. whatever

2007-08-12 05:04:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

no, i haven't.

2007-08-12 16:28:45 · answer #10 · answered by LauraS 2 · 0 0

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