the kids range from age 3 to 19 and i think like 2 have dyslexia, NONE have ANY social skills at ALLnone take tests and most are like 3 grades behind...its really frustrating ill talk to one of them and they dont understand what im saying sometimes....i cant avoid them because theyre my neighbors but its really frustrating what should i do??? and one thinks shes my best friend but is really not, how do i tell her that???
2007-08-05 00:50:25 · 12 answers · asked by silly silly:) 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Home Schooling
First of all, rather than telling the girl she isn't your best friend be a friend to her.
Secondly unfortunately it is their parents decision (except for the 19 year old who is legally an adult). Just be a friend to them and help them learn what they can from you.
2007-08-05 04:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by Truth 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How do you know they never learn anything? Have tested them? Have you evaluated what they know at the beginning of a school year and compared it with what they know at the end? You said two have dyslexia, which means they would have some difficulty regardless of where they are schooled, how do you know the others don't have some kind of similar problem?
From your poor grammar skills I am ("like") not surprised that someone has difficulty understanding you.
Don't judge this family without knowing all the details, and since the details are really none of your business I guess that means don't judge them at all.
As far as telling this girl that you don't want her for a friend... first make sure that's what you want to do, and if so then you have to be honest.
2007-08-05 03:39:12 · answer #2 · answered by Thrice Blessed 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing for you to do. As much as that might not be your vision of homeschooling, some people prefer to focus on character development or other things instead of academics. They have no visions of their children becoming engineers or doctors and are fine with that. You're just going to have to accept it.
As for the one thinking that she's your best friend, it's likely the other way around: you are her best friend. Which is sad because it doesn't sound like you really do anything with them, which means they really don't get out. Since you want to do something, this is a place you could do something: next time you're going out with some friends or having a party or something, invite one or two of them who are closest to you in age. (You sound like a teenager; sorry, if you're not!) Offer them the opportunity to get to know other people, coach them on their social skills where appropriate (but discretely--don't make a big fuss in front of other people). You can be a help to them that way. You might also talk about the things you learn in school and they might be inspired that way to learn some stuff on their own.
2007-08-05 02:44:00 · answer #3 · answered by glurpy 7 · 6⤊ 1⤋
All I can tell you is about a kid I knew in a brick and mortar high school age 15 who couldn't tell me what 0.10 of 10 was (I'll give you all a hint, it's 1) and after she graduated from high school she one told me that Denmark was a city.
The point I'm making. 90% of the kids in the Los Angeles School district are 3-4 grades behind their age levels.
When I went to college HALF my class members in Acting 1 didn't know "what" a resume was.
So they wrote about themsevles (which is acceptable).
My resume included all my unschool exeriences with sound recording 8mm movie film, editing, titling, splicing, doing split screen, anamorphic work, in camera dissolves. My unschool work in 16mm that netted me a documentary for a producer out of Cal State Northridge.
By first published writings in Sky and Telescope at age 16.
I was totally suprised no English course, Business course or Typing class in high school has ever tackled the topic of the Resume.
Of course that was way back when dinosaurs roamed the Earth.
Today they are making some high school students do reports in APA format.
2007-08-05 03:46:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
How do you know the mother is not doing a good job homeschooling her eight children? How do you know that two of the children have dyslexia and that none have any social skills? How do you know that most of them are three grades behind? Perhaps, if they appear shy or reticent to you, this may be because they are not exposed to children who behave badly, attempt to grow up too soon, try to fit in with the crowd, and have no respect for authority.
Why would you want to avoid people who are not unkind? Why does one of the girls think you are her best friend? Did you lead her to believe that? Can you find it in your heart to be kind to her and accept her for who she is?
One important lesson in life is to accept people for who they are--not who we want them to be. Everyone is different, learns differently, etc. Perhaps their mother is homeschooling them, because she believes this is best for her children.
2007-08-05 02:45:46 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. Phyllis 5 · 7⤊ 1⤋
Well actually it's none of your business.
Unless you can PROVE there is neglect, or that they are really as academically behind as you say then butt out.
Many homeschoolers do not follow a "standard" curriculum, test, or appear to be doing the same things as ps kids.
If you truly have concerns than you need to approach your neighbor with them.
2007-08-05 01:39:39 · answer #6 · answered by ArmyWifey 4 · 8⤊ 1⤋
Well, I think you need to provide much more information. You say the children are, "like 3 grades behind". How do you know?
2007-08-05 02:01:38 · answer #7 · answered by mammato4boys 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
whoever are the homeschool facilitator is in he/ she has to report to local board of education on subjects covered and progress of students...
being social is not a requirement and if these kids are'n't social personalities then they are better off being homeschooled as they will be able to progress in their knowledge without the distractions of peer pressure
Testing is not a requirement in every area you live..
only in schools
It is not your business to do anything
Leave them alone
They found something that works for them and it is not your business to judge
According to national average, homeschool kids test higher on college entrance exams and are more focused than other students at college too
besides they get to stay home sleep in...and live a less demanding schedule
I see nothing wrong with that
Unless you know all the details my bet is they're doing just fine and you just don't understand
2007-08-05 01:07:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 2⤋
properly my 17 y/o sister (in regulation) is a senior and she or he's interpreting stepped forward calculus, stepped forward physics, stepped forward french and she or he's incredibly sensible so i think of they are gaining know-how of something extra of them are going to college then previous generations.
2016-10-09 06:19:19 · answer #9 · answered by dawber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you don't have enough to do in your own life that you have to watch hers?
Do you know that you could be sued for libel for these statements? MYOB is good advice in this case. You don't really know for sure what you are talking about. It is NONE of your business. And you are breaking the law by making unfounded, unjust accusations about them.
2007-08-05 02:04:43 · answer #10 · answered by mama woof 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋