how will a man feel if i tell him i am not sexually attracted to him. he is a friend?

Question

he is a very close friend and i already tell him that i like when he touch me but am not sexually attracted to him

Answer 1

If you are not physically attracted to him , you shouldn't lead him on , say that you like how he touches you .
Don't encourage him to make physical or sexual advances to you , you are giving him the wrong messages . When he touches you you should say to him , please don't , I'm your very good friend , but I want us just to remain friends .

Answer 2

....funny issue we have here.

After all, it's hard to find a real male friend who wouldn't be attracted to you in anyway at all. So, if you tell him that, then what can I assume? That he's sexually attracted to you? For you body, or for you and your body?

He touches you, is it intimately or not? If so, I highly doubt he intends to be just good friends with you. For the worse case, have a one night stand and forget everything. Or he's curious about what sex is to him (IF he's a virgin) he thought he'd experience it from a close friend like you.

Many possiblilities but I can't even specify since you aren't a little ted more detailed with your question.

But other then that mainly if you said that to your friend and if it a FRIEND and his feelings for you is neutral, I highly doubt that would be a blow to him. But if he deeply likes you and you say that, I say you'd break his heart. Base on his response you'll know. Other then that, to assume how he would feel is totally blowing our answers and him out of line here since we don't know him and how we can really relate him to what you are going to say to him.

Answer 3

mmm ... oki if u tell him that he will get a shock actully ... how good he touch you and u like it and in the same time ur not sexually attracted to him ???

Answer 4

tell him u like some other guy