My girlfriend and I just decided that we want to share that experience with each other. She explained to me that she is ready, and we know the consequences. I did not rush her or try and influence her opinions, I just let her decide what she wanted to choose in doing. We love each other very much. We've been going out for about a year. And I honestly never want to let her go. We both want to run away to California one day when we're older, and live out life in the sun. I'm ready. She's ready.
**EXTRA INFO**
She's been fingered before, and regrets it because she did not love the guy.
And I've fingered a girl before, and I didn't love that girl either, it was a sort of bad situation.
So we've BOTH experienced sexual activity in someway before.
Does it sound like we're ready?
2007-08-04 18:45:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
****We're both going to go to college
****Would oral just be a better option?
PLEASE HELP. thanks
2007-08-04 18:52:35 · update #1
It seems like it--- but how old are you? Are you prepared, in the event one of you has lied and has an STD? Are you ready to have the conversation about abortion, if she should get pregnant? Could you support a child if she won't have an abortion?
Once you've resolved these issues, then you're ready to have sex with no worries.
2007-08-04 18:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by Marc M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um no your not ready. Your just another one of those teens that all they want to do is have sex. And "run away to California". What you really think your ready to run a new life here. First get enough money because California is not a cheap place, I live there. And second you are only "ready" when you do it yourself and dont ask people on yahoo.
2007-08-05 01:55:20 · answer #2 · answered by Dahsa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hate to say it but neither of you have any sexual experience and if you can regret something like that are you sure you wont regret this? Thats a big decision. Are you even old enough to handle this? Everyone thinks they are gonna run away together but if your coming to California, its expensive so be prepared before you take that leap. I wish you the best but in my opinion your not ready.
2007-08-05 01:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by Caligirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great. Another uninformed, misguided teenager who "thinks they're ready". No you're not ready. Wanting to "run away to California and live out life in the sun", eh? Sure, you can do that. I'll be sure to toss you a few pennies on my next visit because that sounds just about right in terms of what you're headed for.
2007-08-05 01:49:52 · answer #4 · answered by Mistah J 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Only you can tell if your ready....
you said you know the consequences..
so just in case she gets pregnant, are you ready to support her???
if your think you could handel the consequences then I beleive your ready,
but like I said only you can decide if your ready.
good luck!
2007-08-05 01:52:57 · answer #5 · answered by tinkerbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a man. Correct? Therefore, you are ready for sex. The end.
2007-08-05 01:49:31 · answer #6 · answered by Ethan K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm, you should be the one to know if you're ready. not anonymous members of yahoo. besides your first time wont be very rewarding so there's no loss in waiting.
and mark w, you took it way too far
2007-08-05 02:05:23 · answer #7 · answered by manovelli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself questins fist, Are you ready, because this is big, Ask urself is she the one you want to share this expirience with. Its not that easy. and always use protection.
2007-08-05 01:55:57 · answer #8 · answered by Inessik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful - it will change your relationship forever - but if you are both ready and want this - PRACTICE SAFE SEX!
2007-08-05 02:58:16 · answer #9 · answered by vegasrob89118 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are u guys i hope y'll are not 1415,16. i hope y'll are 18 and u should wait until u are married that wat it say in the bible.
once its gone u can get it back thats y u should wait.
2007-08-05 01:51:52 · answer #10 · answered by jeremy_goose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋