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I feel like I'm too polite all the time and this really annoying guy is taking advantage of it. I have no problem telling him off if I get really mad and I've done that a few times, but he seems to forget I can't stand him and he does stuff like going on about it in a loud voice if I pass him on the street without saying hello. Then if I'm not quite mad enough to lose it, I end up trying to be polite and I hate that because I even let him sit with me at the coffee shop, even though I think he's nuts and didn't want to, because I was being to polite. I dated him casually at one time but that was two years ago. Now I'm really fed up because I found out some people think we're still dating! It's a small town so rumours get around. He is so totally opposite of the person I want to date, who is quiet and shy, and I think the annoying guy is competing because he knows I like him. This situation is really irksome to me so I need to find a way to put a stop to it.

2007-08-04 17:10:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

4 answers

OK first of all do NOT sit next to him at the coffee shop again!!! That only feeds his hope! If you just have to be polite tell him that you think he is an OK guy but that he is just not right for you! Also remember there is a difference between being rude and expressing righteous anger! He seems to have no problem being rude and obnoxious where you are concerned! He has found that he gets his way "at least partially" by doing so! Don't worry so much about his feelings, sometimes you have to be Rude and to the point to get your message across! Who do you want to make happy him or you?...Remember the only person you truly have to make happy is the one you see every morning in the mirror!

2007-08-04 18:00:24 · answer #1 · answered by theinfinitywalker 2 · 1 0

hi just tell him in a NOT LOud voice hunny..ahhm wait no hunny lol like this srry but i dont like you as that maybe just friends remember not to lose patience{ =
or just tell him if you love me give me sometime to think about it and make him think that your so confuse he might pity you or something or give you a chance not to be annoyed

2007-08-05 00:16:50 · answer #2 · answered by omgGUESSwho? 2 · 0 1

Its hard to reject someone. But if it escalates too much ... then you might just have to be rude.

2007-08-05 00:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by twid392™ 6 · 0 0

politely say I am not interested and please do not bother me anymore.

2007-08-05 00:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by Michael M 7 · 1 0

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