So, my boyfriend and I have known each other for 2 months, we've been dating for around 6 weeks, anyway, we're both virgins, he's 24 and I'm 23, and we're planning to have sex. My friends think it's too soon, and though I don´t actually love him... I think Im ready, what do you think?
2007-08-04 16:28:31 · 18 answers · asked by litha_girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have waited this long. Hold out for marriage. I will mean so much more to you. Plus if you don't love him don't do it. Sex is for two people who are in love. I can promise you it want feel as good mentally or physically if you don't both love each other first.
2007-08-04 16:33:59 · answer #1 · answered by Brook E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you dont really love him then y r u trying to have sex with him and i think you are still a little too young to start and u need to think about the emotional side to so yea i dont think its the right time so yeah u r not ready
2007-08-04 23:34:55 · answer #2 · answered by Ari B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always be told women leave a piece of there heart with the man. do you want to leave it with someone you don`t love
2007-08-04 23:34:28 · answer #3 · answered by miiiikeee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he thinks it's too soon find another guy... He can wait and you can experience what sex is all about
2007-08-04 23:31:46 · answer #4 · answered by vvicked01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY are you still a virgin-----holding out for the perfect one???? THEN WHY are you about to give it up to someone who you don't love??? peer pressure? lust? I can tell you there are guys out here who would have a heck of a lot of appreciation for a young woman like you---don't blow it!
2007-08-04 23:39:53 · answer #5 · answered by say what? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is the time not yet come to take decision any good or bad things decision will
take after minimum 90 days,so wait another 30 days minimum.
2007-08-04 23:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by Rangarajan R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to sleep with a man you don't love and have no commitment with, incase a baby is produced?
2007-08-04 23:31:11 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No better time than the present.
2007-08-04 23:39:19 · answer #8 · answered by whatshisface 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask this question then you aren't ready.
2007-08-04 23:32:16 · answer #9 · answered by Clueless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're ready, go for it. You aren't in high school anymore.
Just know that there are risks in that!
2007-08-04 23:31:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋