For the last time, I had it! I'm tired of being rejected. I can see if I did something wrong or wronged anyone in a way. But it always about how I look. Right now, I hate God because I didn't sign for any of this. I'm bald and have a small penis. Two strikes against me thanks to God. Today I renounced him alltogether because it is so unfair to me. I tried talking to people I love but they telling me stuff I can't tolerate. Which makes more madder at Him. What is the point of living here if I can't enjoyed the preasures of life? I don't wanna serve him and I don't wanna be with anybody I don't want. Because Iwon't be happy or feeling good about myself. It will be about Him or the other person. What about me? I feel so cheated! I won't rather have AIDS than go thru this. At least, it will be a reason to be rejected! Come on somebody, talk to me!
2007-08-04 16:21:29 · 24 answers · asked by terrellgat 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
why be mad at God... if anything u should be running towards God since you seem to think u have nothing else going for you ..im sure ur maker wont reject you so why reject Him ..
2007-08-04 16:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
You're definitely having a bad day. Please believe me
when I say that I can both sympathize and empathize.
The best advice I can give anyone in your position is:
1) Find a psychologist. A PhD. will be able to talk to
and with you on a one-to-basis; they'll be able to help
you learn how to cope with the feelings you have.
2) Find something for solace that is not religiously -
oriented. Christian, Catholic, or Mormons--the latter
of which I consider to be MORONS--are only going
to force their views on you. That's not their place. It's
your life, and you shouldn't listen to anyone who tries
to tell you how to live it.
Just live it in a morally-good & correct way. Do good
for things for others as a matter of habit--not just as
a matter of occasional charity. You'll find it helps you
a lot.
3) Read up on Buddhism--which is NOT a religion,
but, rather, a philosophy--and the art of meditation.
Three books I can recommend, all of which I've read,
all by the same author: Joseph Goldstein, co-founder
and teacher at the Insight Meditation Society in Barre,
MA.
The Experience of Insight
Insight Meditation: The Path to Freedom
One Dharma
Good luck.
And... peace.
2007-08-04 23:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by Pete K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are many different wayz of pleazin a woman than the size of a manz penis. i know plenty of women who are in love with men whom they say do not have a big penis. i fell in love with a bald man. he was not bald by choice... some things we see about ourselves that we do not like can be loved by someone else.
before one can love another, that person must first love him or her self. though you feel like God gave you some imperfections, see how you can make them work for you. what about all the other things about you that u feel are good about?
sometimes we feel like other people are made perfectly, but everyone have something that they would like to change or make better about themselves.
there were times when i felt like i was the butt of a joke when it comes to God, but then when i really look at the world and people that have it worse than i do, i realize that im not part of a joke.
everything we go through is just life... a penis that is too small.. one that is too big... no hair, too much hair...
some people are obese, some too skinny... no one is perfect... many times its the way we carry ourselves and the confidence we have about ourselves that attract otherz.
if people are rejecting you becauz you are bald, or becauz of you penis size then they seem like they are the ones with the problems... not you. i would rather be alone than with someone that shallow.
the problem with not enjoying the pleasures of life isnt that you may one day die... the problem is that you keep waking up... therefore, try to wake up with the attitude that your life will get better and try to make goalz to make your life worth living. If you focus on things that you know can make your life more enjoyable then everything else will come into play....
make a list of the bad things that you feel God has put your way, then thing of the good things.... i promise you the good outweighz the bad.
2007-08-04 23:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by Shazee Sha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Slow down sweety,
If you don't want God and you don't want anybody else then why are you so miserable being alone?
I know your situation is sad but you need to try and love yourself a little more. How else will anyone love you or will you allow anyone to love you for that matter.
Hang in there OK and be strong.. you don't need a huge penis or a head full of hair to be happy. all you need is the right attitude.
God bless you
2007-08-04 23:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all dint give up on God. I think bald guys are sexy and size does not matter. You just haven't found the right girl yet. Maybe your problems are from insecurities. People can sense when you are insecure, and it is very unattractive. Confidence is one of the most attractive traits. Embrace your baldness and there is more than one way to please a woman. Nobody is perfect. Always remember you dint have to look very far to see someone who has it alot worse than you. Looks aren't everything haven't you ever seen a beautiful woman with a not-so-attractive man and wondered how he got her? Women love confidence, charm, loyalty, honesty, self-respect, and someone who can make them laugh. And everybody loves a great listener.
2007-08-04 23:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to get some self confidence. There is a person out there for you, you must have patience. Everything happens for a reason. Maybe it just isn't the right time for you to meet that special person yet? You have to think that way. I have had problems getting work, wondering why I can't w/ all my experience. Wondering what is wrong w/me. But I tell myself God has a plan for me and apparently those companies are not part of it.
I pray that you will ask God for forgiveness. Pray whole heartedly to God, ask him to please bless you with someone special to share your life with.
He will answer you. I have had some wonderful blessings. You can too.
Good luck!
2007-08-04 23:27:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't loose hope, and believe in science. Maybe one day they will be able to enlarge penises. Maybe your penis is not so small as you imagine and its only in your thoughts, be positive. Can you tell me what is the length of your penis fully erected? (normally it is 12-15cm fully erected). As for women, they usually think that large penises are the best and they will enjoy better with large penises, but it is only psychological.
The most important thing in sex is your approach to a woman and your ability to satisfy her by different ways in bed regardless of the size of your penis. I have a large penis relatively (18 cm) but still I don't have a girlfriend, so take it easy, it is not all about penises.
As for your figure and your appearance, you can work on that by your own self, try wearing nice clothes, put perfume, be more elegant. You can also make cosmetic operations if you can afford. Don't worry everything is gonna be alright.
2007-08-05 13:36:33 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sin caused your baldness and smallness, not God. So hate sin. You are so unhappy, because you are so self centered and selfish. Do something for someone else with out expecting anything in return. Treat others as you want to be treated. Be caring, loving, giving, tolerant, patient, kind, slow to anger and quick to forgive. You will like your self much better and you will be happier.
2007-08-04 23:30:28 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have a roof over your head and food on your plate, your doing better than many people. Instead of feeling sorry for yourself, why don't you make something happen for yourself. Go out and try to find the right woman. If she's the right one, your "size" won't matter, neither will your hair. I think it is your attitude that is getting in your way, not your god. Think about it.
2007-08-04 23:31:06 · answer #9 · answered by Draven 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If your insecurities bother you so much that it's affecting your relationships, then considering we live in the day and age with modern technology and all that what-not, I would think you would fix it. Don't just complain about it, do something about it. If you have to take out a loan to get some surgery, it's better than whining about it.
There's plenty of people with worse problems than you....
2007-08-04 23:35:14 · answer #10 · answered by CHRISTINA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your just going through a test and God did not cause this to happen to you!!!! We all go through rejection in our lives and we must perservere. These circumstances are in your life to get your focus on yourself and your life and the changes you should make in your life. Expand your social circle and get counseling. People can only reject you if you allow them .
2007-08-04 23:29:48 · answer #11 · answered by LEELEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋