this summer we have opened up to each other and we tell and text each other I heart you... or i <3 you lots xoxoxoxoox and do mean it deeply. but we don't say I love you...cuz i think we both feel its too early...we recently just reach into having sex with each other with real feelings for each other...but he does not say I love you....he may say i wuv you.... so my question to you guys is this.... Do men need to have sex to grow the realtionship to really fall "IN love with you....and do you think that now we are having sex his wording will change? are guys shy about saying I LOVE YOU? Just wondering....i know our feelings are for real but....... just wanted some input. Thanks
2007-08-04 16:19:56 · 4 answers · asked by sporty_kitten 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, sounds like you guys are teens (me too) and saying I love you just may not be his thing, he might not know if he really does love you. I doubt sex will change his mind in the long term, but you may get it out of him right after lol
2007-08-04 16:24:39 · answer #1 · answered by adklsjfklsdj 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex with one another just after 3 months does not mean love.
A guy that cannot say the words...is not in love. Wuv is not love.
Crazy in lust or crazy in love?
If you want to hear the words "I love you" from a guy...Become friends...best friends...then lovers.
Right now...what you are experiencing is the high from lust...there is no love so don't expect to hear those words.
2007-08-04 16:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by cadvadvocate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you have sex with a guy when you haven't said the "love" word to each other? Why would you have sex and risk your life and your potential children's lives on a man who has made no commitment to you?
Now that you've given him everything he wants, and not made him commit to you first, what's ever going to make him want to change the relationship and take the next step?
In other words, why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?
2007-08-04 16:24:14 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
why wast yourself on sex it could ruin the relationship and the relationship with your future husband to and its permanent not like you can take it back just like suicide
2007-08-04 16:29:58 · answer #4 · answered by xandradhartmann 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋