2007-08-04 15:32:42 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you shouldnt go to 3rd. If he really loves you he will respect his decision. If youre anxious about telling him you dont want to then thats not a good sign in your relationship. In my opinion you are read to go to 3rd when youre ready to have your own place if neccessary, to have enough finances for a child (if you get one), when you get married, and when you have a collage degree to back you up if u and ur man seperate ways. you used good judgement in thinking that ur young if you are. oh god who where doesnt want to go to 3rd? i want to but im waiting for the right guy and for marriage. i sometimes think "oh ill just do it once to see how it is.." but ik better than that and ik that once i do it ill want to do it with my new guy thinking that its love i feel. when i get married thats when ik its love i feel.
hope this helps! : )
ps. think of the pros and cons..the cons outweigh the pros.
2007-08-04 15:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by Parle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything. Obviously, if you're asking people that you don't even know what you should do then you're not ready for it. You wouldn't even have to question it if you were. You said it yourself that you're young. You also still refer to it as 'third base' so you're too immature to have sex or do anything like it (it's nothing bad to you so don't take any offense, your brain and body just aren't mature enough for it).
Obviously we can't stop you but you don't seem like you're ready for it so don't let your hormones get the best of you.
2007-08-04 22:40:58 · answer #2 · answered by Dollfacee. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him its about respect and if can't seem to find that for you when you tell him no to 3rd base, then tell him his love for you is based on that and that alone. You have all the time in the world. Don't be so fast to hurry anything. Think more of yourself. Your worth it!
2007-08-04 22:37:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait. The fact that you have to ask this question tells me that you are a child and not ready to make Adult decisions about love and sex. If you are ever hesitant about what to do sexually with someone, Don't do it.
2007-08-04 22:36:45 · answer #4 · answered by JillardG 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. You should wait until you are older. He should be Mr. Right and the one! You will always remember your first and you want it to be a special memory not a mistake. Good luck.
2007-08-04 22:37:33 · answer #5 · answered by shainamorgan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't respect your wishes.It's time to give him the boot.Sounds like he is only out for a good time.Then they just leave.Sex is not necessary .Especially when you are too young.
2007-08-04 22:37:41 · answer #6 · answered by sharen d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are totally ready. If he won't wait, find a new boyfriend cause he doesn't really love you or he would respect you more for your beliefs. Good luck.
2007-08-04 22:37:08 · answer #7 · answered by puanani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't let him hit a home run. OK you two can find lots of ways to finish the job without you risking pregnancy.
be wise make sure both you and him carry with you at all times condoms. don't ever fall for the story that you don't need them this time because.........
so like i wrote no home runs find ways for him to please you and you him . keep it that way.
2007-08-04 22:37:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let him know you want to wait until u get older but if u want to..(try using a condom) since u say u are to young and another reason,if u use a condom you won't get pregnant or no bad things will happen.. un-less it slip.
-BRi
2007-08-04 22:37:28 · answer #9 · answered by Blessed__ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wants to go 3rd? what does that mean? does that mean he wants an open relationship? if that's the case, he doesn't love you and he's greedy and selfish.
2007-08-04 22:35:55 · answer #10 · answered by Ms. Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋