I love him but i don't know if he feels the same way HELP ????

Question

I told him like 2 weeks ago that i love him and he said his feelings for me are strong but not love yet ... Our relationship has been going great ...and when i told him i love him he goes it's okay to have those feelings its better to get them out then to keep them in ... ANd now every once in a great while i wanna say i love you to him , like last night for instance i was laying next to him and i wanted to say it soo bad but on the other hand i didn't want him to say nothing to me ... WHAT SHOULD I DO >>> ??? PLEASE HELP

Answer 1

Ok from a guy point of view....wait....cause u dont want him to be in an awkward situation...cause then he could say it without meaning it and u dont want that....so wait....in time he should come around :D

Answer 2

Well, youve already told him that you love him. So thats a good start. But now from what i can tell, your wanting him to be in love already also.

Not everyone feels the same, there could be something major stopping him from feeling the same, or it could just be timing, or that hes afraid of love, or too inexperienced to say it.

There is only one thing to do though. Talk to him about it. I can tell your stressed and people that are stressed usually do something wrong because they cant handle the stress anymore.

I would suggest talking to them, find out where they stand and exactly why, then determine if thats what your looking for. Be honest, it may be hard to talk about, but its even harder on you to feel like your the only one in love in a relationship. Try to understand their view, and try to explain yours, before it becomes a major issue.

Answer 3

Do not say it again! If he feels it, he'll say it. For me this would be reason to leave. Its never going to even out. This is now more of a power thing. The person who cares the least has the power. You're Ga Ga. He's not.

In a solid relationship such important matters as saying I love you happen naturally. You can feel that it will be returned.

At this point you want to say it to make him say it back. You want your insecurities comforted but you should feel insecure because you're in love with someone who isn't in love with you and that's scary. Even if he says it back, how can you know it wasn't out of pity?

If you're determined to stay, let him pick the time and place for his I love you. Stop trying to lead.

Answer 4

Don't say it anymore, I tell these girls and i tell em do not say it. Let him say it, once is enough so your ok now, but no more your apt to getting him to run the other direction and that's not love its leaving. so please please do not say it again More than likely he will start thinking about it and give him some time to do this don't ask let him figure it out. He'll tell you eventually probably by the end of this month or next. However if he doesn't say anything about it, He'll never this is about 5- 6 months down the road tho. be patient good luck.

Answer 5

Just wait it out....at least he was honest with you....he could have told you, got your hopes up, and THEN told you he wasn't telling the truth....you would be hurting a hell of a lot more. Just wait it out and DON'T tell him you love him again, until he tells you first. At least when he tells you, you will know he was ready, which means he probably meant it, which also means when you tell him back, it will feel absolutely wonderful, because now, you are reciprocating him.....be patient......bk

Answer 6

That's so hard, it really is. perhaps you should try to distant your self a bit. Not a lot just enough to where he notices so that you give him space to realize rather or not he does love you.

I wish I had a better answer but I don't know what men think half the time.

Answer 7

It's not complicated. Either you do or you don't and he doesn't. Make sure you're not being used. When we're in love we don't always see the forest for the trees. I'm just saying don't allow your feeling to blind you from what's really going on.

Answer 8

i know how hard it is. just try to hold the feelings back for a while and the urge to say i love you to him. try to see and make him say it by himself. that way you will really know how much he feels for you. sometimes, men are just scared to say it and sometimes, they say it even if they don't mean it - just to satisfy that you want him to say it back to you. give him time. try to see if he's just not the verbal type.as long as he hasn't done anything to offend you and make you think otherwise, just hold on to him. eventually, he will just say it. if he still doesn't say i love you. then maybe he really doesn't ... so as for now, enjoy the moment with him. wait till he gets to say it to you. don't force the issue on this i love you thing. maybe he is just not ready and maybe he wants to say it to you in a way that that you will really understand and feel it. or maybe he is just waiting for the right time. or maybe he is just used that you are the one saying it to him..... bottom line of my answer is, just let it be for now. take your time. don't force him. wait for his own time. good luck. check for signs if he really loves you or if he feels the same way about you other than just saying i love you.

Answer 9

Just say what you feel. men have a harder time of saying I love You than we do. He at least has stayed with you, some men run away. He does care for you but canot say it just yet.

Answer 10

Ask him "Do you really love me?" If he doesn't, then obviously he is playing you are just is slow at his feelings for you. Either dump him and make him jealous or just stop telling him you love him and see what happens.