Why is this? I barely talk in this one class, yet this guy likes me. He always teases me though, but I can tell he does. Whenever I'm waiting by the classroom doors before lunch he always comes up to me and just checks me out right in front of my eyes and everything. It's always been this way for me.
Yet when I'm more outgoing, I feel like I'm shooing them all away? It's not that I'm being obnoxious, I just don't get it, maybe they see me as vulnerable?
2007-08-04 13:20:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you are quiet, you are an unknown. People love a mystery.
2007-08-04 13:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by Bibs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not only you it happens to me too. and i just get it. maybe they're attracted to our "innocence" whenever we're shy? i don't know. like this one time i was having lunch by myself and this guy just came and sat beside me and just started to ask me questions and talk to me. we had lunch together after that. next thing i know we're exchanging numbers thats when i found out he liked me. there is this other time where i went on work experience in high school and this cute guy was there. being me i'm always shy, he was always complementing me and joking around, inviting me into his office to do filing for him but i never saw it as nothing dramatic. by the end of the two weeks we exchanged numbers and thats when i found out he liked me. i don't know girl when you find out tell me!
p.s. don't think negatively those guys were my age...one was two years older.
2007-08-04 20:35:11 · answer #2 · answered by purple_goddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys dont like aggressive girls. they want the kind they can step on and walk all over. if you are shy and a guy likes you..run. but if a guy can accept the real you, if the real u is outgoing then he is secure and will treat you better cuz he respects you.
2007-08-04 20:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋