okay so heres the deal.
im blonde,i cheer, i have big boobs,im pretty tan, guys always tell me how hott i am and how good i look and how much they wanna f*ck me, and i kinda have a rep as a slutt, i have a ton of guy friends alot of them are older than me but i still have alot of guy friends in my grade, pretty much all the guys i hangout with are on the football team or play lacrosse and are in i guess what you'd call the "cool crowd" haha that sounds lame but whatever. well i havent had a boyfriend in a while and i wanna know what im doing wrong and what i could do differently or why i dont have a boyfriend. i mean guys always tell me how nice and pretty and hott i am and how i have such a good body. and i just idk what to do. please answer ya'll i need help!
2007-08-04 12:49:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no im just saying what guys tell me, im not conceited i dont go around saying how hott i am. im not just some bitchy air head blonde girl. dont be mean people..
2007-08-04 12:53:35 · update #1
yall no im not into myself and im not like that, i was just trying to give details, and i dont try to fit in with "the cool crowd" those are just guys i hangout with cause i have known alot of them since we were younger and since i cheer alot of them are football players so i met some of them that way. i didnt mean to make myslef sound like a self obsessed *****.
2007-08-04 12:57:44 · update #2
Do not be offended because I don't know you.
You might not be being true to yourself, as long as you are being yourself and being good to people you'll have a guy.
One thing, I'm a guy and I'm not really attracted to a girl that has a rep of being a slut (no offense) maybe that is the cause of you not getting a boyfriend
Seriously guys who only want to fu** you are just plain annoying you should never date them date someone who really loves you not just your body
2007-08-04 12:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by rejy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm 19, and that i've got in no way had a female buddy. i'm like your version athletic, clever, friendly, outgoing. i became o.k. enjoyed in extreme college, to the component I gained the promenade King award, terrific dressed, and a pair others. What i'm able to make it easier to comprehend is that its not you or your college. perhaps you do not have a boyfriend simply by fact that's not the incredible time yet. i've got confidence college would be a while because it style of feels to be for the final public. My suggestion: meanwhile, difficulty approximately your self no want for everybody else even nevertheless you will have crushes here and there. Get sturdy grades, take part in many extracurricular activities, income an theory of what you choose to do with your existence while college arrives simply by fact easily college will your best time.
2016-11-11 05:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You pretty much answered your own question, dear. "I kinda have a rep as a slut", big boobs, pretty, etc.? Not ONCE did you mention what kind of person you were and that first line pretty much says it all. You're nothing but a large titted easy lay for these guys. Why would they bother paying the required attention to you for a relationship when they know you're "kinda" a slut.
By the way, there is no "kinda". If you're aware enough of yourself to even admit such a thing then you ARE a slut. Not kinda or sorta or some half-assed crap like that. Keep your head up and your pants on, dear.
2007-08-04 13:02:02 · answer #3 · answered by Mistah J 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just find a semi-good looking nerdy/geeky guy. He will make a great boyfriend, do anything for you, help your grades go up, and would never ever cheat. And give you all the attn you can handle. When the girls ask what you see in him, just wink and says hes huge. You may actually find that there is intelligent conversation to be had, and likely the nerdy guy will make far more out of his life than the dumb jocks ever do. They rarely end up in contsruction or ditch digging. ( Bill Gates? )
2007-08-04 13:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I think u need 2 get over urself a lil bit. Ur ? sounded more like a boast and had an in-ur-face-I'm-cooler-than-you conotation 2 it. Don't worry so much bout guy situations- jes live ur life 2 the fullest by doin everythin u love, and u will meet guys that love what u love. U prob have plenty of time b4 u need 2 worry bout bein tied down. Enjoy bein young!
2007-08-04 12:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by PKNat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Reread what you wrote and if you still dont understand...its not even worth me answering. Boys aren't just mindless idiots...they care about personality and all that. You appear to be easy, and that is the reason why. If you KNOW you have a rep as a slut, then why dont you try to CHANGE it....? Thats why you dont have a bf. Boys might like to LOOK at you, however when it comes to dating, they want the naturally beautiful, nice, respectable girl.
2007-08-04 12:54:19 · answer #6 · answered by SuRf3rQT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the first 5 things you said in the beginning dont matter at all to the kind of guys that you might actually be able to stick with. any guy that follow you just because you're hot isnt the kind of guy you want. trust me, if a guy you like comes along, you're gonna know. you dont need a boyfried anyways. the chances of actually having an extended relationship with someone you met at your age is very very very very slim. your time will come...
2007-08-04 12:54:01 · answer #7 · answered by Fundamenta- list Militant Atheist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because boys that tell you your hott and sexy don't want to be a boyfriend ,they don't want all the emotional relationship crap, they just want to have something to look and lust over, thats how they see you. be modest and they right guy will come to you and will see you for so much more then looks. thats the kind of boy you want someone that sees you beautiful(not sexy) when you think you look like crap.
I hope this helps
2007-08-04 13:07:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is in your words.
Here's a quote from your paragraph "i kinda have a rep as a slutt" - Sluts aren't girlfriend material.
2007-08-04 12:54:26 · answer #9 · answered by Trapped 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...you need 2 get a grip on your life if you allow guys to tell you that to your face. RESPECT YOURSELF, hon.
Maybe it is all about your personality since you claim how beautifully perfect your outside is. Improve yourself on the inside...and maybe some guy will be interested enough in you to give you a chance.
2007-08-04 13:01:47 · answer #10 · answered by jlcintexas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋