2007-08-04 12:39:33 · 17 answers · asked by missbee. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
b/c wen i was in puberty//i guess my body grew or whatnot...n my behind grew...n the marks wont go away.
2007-08-04 12:44:14 · update #1
Well true love conquers all.
2007-08-12 12:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when i was younger around 12, i started getting stretch marks and i was convinced i would never be able to even take my cloths off in front of a man because i looked so bad and i was so insecure about it but when i got older and i got married to a man who loved me, he never once mentioned my stretch marks and as more time past i just came completely out of my shell, i realized how sexy i could be and honestly didnt even pay any attention to the marks anymore because being sexy and attractive comes from what u show people from the inside, and plus when your truly loved it gives u all the confidence u will need not to feel self consciounce anymore. So dont worry just find the right guy and be all you know u can be inside and you'll be fine.
2007-08-12 17:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by anna c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is the thing if the guy was a teenager he would most likely be turned off because teenagers generally judge everything on looks. If he is older then your personality would come into play and as long as you don't attempt to sleep with him straight away I am sure he won't care about stretch marks if you have built a relationship with him.
2007-08-04 19:45:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think it's unattractive, then you make it unattractive.
We create our own realities.
Now if you think it's beautiful and you're not ashamed of it,
then, that's what it is.
You sound very, very young. Not old enough to worry about this. When you're a little older, and you learn how to accept your body, stretch marks and all, then you will be ready for a man who will love you unconditionally. But you have to accept yourself unconditionally first.
PS: You should really change your screen name, it sounds extremely offensive.
2007-08-04 19:44:04 · answer #4 · answered by All That Glitters isn't Gold 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's a truthful answer:
If they're bright red, yeah I would be probably be less attracted to you physically, but everyone's flawed except in the movies, tv, and on billboards.
2007-08-12 17:17:12 · answer #5 · answered by ta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when a guy gets to see a lovely ladies butt his into something El's at the time and doesn't care,but if it bothers you see what can be done about it.
good luck
2007-08-11 11:06:38 · answer #6 · answered by Sorry deleted 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't care, assuming that the rest of what you had going on back there was good. Older guys don't care that much about these kinds of things.
2007-08-12 19:27:35 · answer #7 · answered by Ben 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only the shallow guys will notice. you don't make a deal out of it and neither will they. if they care about it enough to make a big deal out of it, they probably weren't worth your time showing them in the first place!
2007-08-12 17:53:41 · answer #8 · answered by J.Lo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL THEY WONT KNOW BECAUSE THEY CANT SEE YOUR BUTT BUT IF YOU HAVE A GUY WHO IS A FRIEND THEN ASK HIM IF YOU CAN TRUST HIM BUT TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION I WOULD SAY NO
2007-08-12 18:10:01 · answer #9 · answered by bossy girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he loves you for who you are not for how you look, then he shouldn't care. If he doesn, then he just a baby and you should look for a man instead!
2007-08-12 06:53:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you have a few stretch marks.... if a guy cannot get past that he is not worth your time or presence
2007-08-12 06:40:20 · answer #11 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋