The girl I'm talking with, her and I really want to be together, but she still has a boyfriend that she does want to break up with. But she is waiting for the right moment to be able to break up with him clean, and be able to walk away without looking back or regret. I'm trying to help move things along with it, but need a way to bring it up without sounding pushy or being rude.
2007-08-04 12:25:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you love her and she love you real love it will be so easy to break up ,why she doesn't be brave and say to him that she love another guy ???At last it is all to u and i only tried to help u because i am like you but i am not sure if she wanted to break up with him bye bye.
2007-08-12 11:36:00 · answer #1 · answered by a lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and she need to back off the getting together crap, and not violate the emotional affair code. In other words, you all shouldn't be discussing her breaking up with him so you can be together, when the times right. She's looking for a doormat or a step up on the ladder of life, and waiting for the right time is the same as, making sure her ducks are lined up, so she's not S O L, FROM BOTH OF YOU. I guarantee, if you were interested in someone else, she wouldn't be talking breakup with him.
2007-08-12 09:50:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay the worse thing you can do to someone if you're in a relationship is to go out with them and like someone else more. My advice to you is the right time would be as soon as you find out that you like someone else more. If she keeps on putting it off then it'll only get worse.
2007-08-12 09:37:18 · answer #3 · answered by Naomi J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she seems to be messing around, tell her theres not going to be a perfect time, she's just prolonging the agony, and the sooner the better, you may need to be pushy though, to make a point xxxx hope it turns out okay
2007-08-12 06:28:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't that's her decision. It looks like she waiting for the right time???????? You can be patient or move on. No need to bring it up, if she wants to end it with him she will, I don't think she needs your input
2007-08-12 11:50:26 · answer #5 · answered by candy c 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in relationships you just can't "push" things along.... you need to have some patience and wait for her. if you love her enough you will wait until she's ready to break up with her boyfriend
2007-08-12 12:25:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude dont do it..move on to some1 else...she has a boyfriend, would u want some1 tryin to take her from you if you were her boyfriend? no you wouldnt, so stop bein an as* and find a girl who is single alright bro.
2007-08-04 12:29:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it this way
a girl who cheats with u (and dont kid urself thats wats happening) will cheat on u
2007-08-11 05:10:06 · answer #8 · answered by lovelife 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. What she's doing to him, she may do to you someday. Why is she still with him if shr wants to be with you? ask yourself this......bettyk
2007-08-12 11:31:03 · answer #9 · answered by elisayn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is wrong with you? if she is seeing you on the side , she will see someone else on the side while dating you. wake up .
2007-08-12 07:12:36 · answer #10 · answered by busted 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋