Okay I went to visit some family in a different state and while I was there I cheated on my boyfriend. I love my boyfriend with all my heart and I want to keep him and i would never cheat on him again. He said if i ever cheat on him he would break up with me... Should I tell my boyfriend i Cheated on him?
2007-08-04 12:15:27 · 8 answers · asked by newyorknikki9 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know it would really be so hard to tell him but you have got to. Be ready for a break-up. If he is kind-hearted to take you back, then he's really meant for you.
Tell him, girl. You owe him that much.
2007-08-04 12:48:27 · answer #1 · answered by Kim B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes!
if you dont and the relationship continues it will make you feel sooo guilty and terrible especially when you two are having a good time and he look @ you smiling and tells you nice things and you 2 are having the time of your life's deep inside you will feel upset about it because its all been a lie. just by cheating it shows that you didnt value your BF as much.
temptation is a b#@% but why risk a good relationship that means something? dont let it escalate because what it you regret not telling him when you had the chance and you speak up about it later on? thatll mean youve been hiding it and he really wont trust you then.
i STRONGLY suggest you tell him and when you do dont try to avoid it after youve mentioned something wrong or keep rambling on and on without getting to the point, take it slow but dont delay it forever, itll get him mad. whther you dated the other guy or had intercourse with him there is always a chance that things will work out. dont give up on who you really love.
a relationship is 2 people not just one, so the reason you cheated might have been because your BF was lacking in an area or you were caught up in the moment. either way communication is the key to a relationship. tell him your true feelings and dont make any false promises just SHOW him you will work for the relationship once again. expect him to be angry and dissapointed to the point where he might ignore you but its just what guys do when they are upset to get their minds off things. leave him alone for a while and then call him up to see what he thinks and to come to a solution. the trust will be broken and its a such a DIFFICULT thing to loose, you feel ugghh but hang in there. be patient and gradually make it up to him however you can. if you 2 have been together for a 1yr or so then it might be easier to let go but if you two have more time together trust me even if he doesnt show it he cares. what other reason would he get upset for? because it hurts him to know that the person he loves was in the hands of another that wasnt him. its up to you and how you feel about it in your heart whether to tell or not.
2007-08-04 19:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by je t'adoreTbyd03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. Honest is the best policy but you don't have to lie if you just keep your mouth closed. You made a mistake now move on. Telling him will make it worse. Good luck in your relationship.
2007-08-04 19:21:22 · answer #3 · answered by Irish 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
By cheating you have proved you do not value your relationship with your bf. You will split soon prob anyway so it does not really matter
2007-08-04 19:23:01 · answer #4 · answered by Buffet4life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him, unless you are looking to end the relationship. If you can put it our of your mind go on without feeling guilty, then no harm done.
2007-08-04 19:22:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should it will make you feel better. But dont expect him to be like ohh its ok hunnie. You shoudl probably expect the worce.
2007-08-04 19:19:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how you cheated
if you just kissed dont tell cuz that isnt big
but if you did something verybig
you should tell him
but do what your heart tells yo
2007-08-04 19:20:18 · answer #7 · answered by summerGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he deserves to know.
2007-08-04 19:18:49 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋