Can you just tell me if there things I should put in or take of.
To Daniel
Ever since you've left me Iv been feeling unlike myself .I've be en so sad and depressed .I just want closore to my heart as to what I did wrong to deserve all your hate from you. I though you loved me can you just tell me why and what went wrong becouse Im still hurting inside. Ashanti
This letter was to my first love that I spent to and a half years with he had cheated on me awhile ago I saw him recently and he called out my name but I just walked of becouse I was still hurting I was 16 when we met and his 5 yrs older then me we havent spoken in 3 months.Can you pls just tell me what to add and all.
2007-08-04 11:45:57 · 23 answers · asked by Ashanti 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey, look i ko this is gunna hurt and all but i would recomend not sending it. it didnt work..getting your answers might just send you back to base one where u were hurting most. i kno exactly how u feel, i have had my heart broken badly by some1 i love deeply...and just give it space, sometimes it better not to kno the answers and in ur case u dont need to answers. u know u were a good girlfriend to him, you know u did nothing wrong, he is just an idiot and made a bad desition. dont let him reel u back in alright. be strong and fight this..it will get over if you allow it to get over. i made th mistake of tryin to contact my ex and askin what i did wrong but then it hit me...i did nothin wrong, she left me for a jerk ex bf who cheated on her before and used her before and i realized i can do better and deserve better and so do u. yes im still hurt but it just recently happened ot me about 2 months ago. but the mistake i made was contacting her, it made her mad and irritated, dont do it ...give it time you will heal and you already kno the true answers..u dont need him to tell u....good luck and keep your head up
2007-08-04 11:53:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To Daniel
Ever since you've left me I've been feeling unlike myself .I've been so sad and depressed.I just want closore to my heart as to what I did wrong to deserve all your hate from you. I thought you loved me. Can you just tell me why and what went wrong, because I'm still hurting inside.
Ashanti
I fix your spelling errors
but I think Maybe it should go something like this:
Dear Daniel,
Ever since you left me I haven't felt like myself. Lately I've been a bit sad thinking about what went wrong between us. I was hoping you could maybe tell me went wrong. I just was wondering because it would help me move on, and would help me put the past behind me. I'm sorry if I'm bothering you, but I hope you can answer my question.
Ashanti
But I probably would send him ANYTHING you didn't do a thing wrong, he cheated on you... don't take 'em back.
2007-08-04 11:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make this sound like it is your fault he cheated. You did not deserve what happened. Try this instead
To Daniel
I feel horrible about the way you treated me when we were together. What do you think I did to deserve this. Because no matter what you say, I didn't. Only a person like yourself would have done this to a person. If you ever cared about me, you would have at least broken up with me first. This is my way of closure so you need not write back. I just wanted to thank you, you have taught me an important lesson in life. And that is to be careful in who you trust.
From
Ashanti
You may copy and paste this or add your own variations. This should wisen him up. But no matter what he says don't get back 2gether. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
2007-08-04 11:55:08 · answer #3 · answered by 7th heaven freak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't do anything wrong, he cheated on you. I remember my first love as well. I broke it off with him. I tried to rekindle things a few years later and he wasn't the same person anymore. You see, sometimes the right person may come along in your life, it's just the wrong time. You need to let him go. Once a cheater always a cheater. Keep your heart available to someone who will be faithful to you.
Don't write any letters or emails. Don't call him or talk to him. Break all ties, otherwise you will just be torturing yourself. Instead of concentrating on a letter, figure where you are going out tonight to have fun and meet someone new.
2007-08-04 11:51:56 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the letter sounds fine
but to you: What are you messing around with a guy thats 5 years older than you anyway?! Thats a huge gap it sounds like he took you for a nieve little girl so he tried to play you and you found out..that means when you were 16 he was 21?! whowzers! He's stupid for being unfaithful but then again its like an adult trying to have a "mature" relationship with a freshman in high school...it's not going to work! I'm sorry if I'm being to honest
Get some good guy that will treat you right that is closer to your age and on your same level..a guy who will love your qualities and cherish you..
2007-08-04 11:53:43 · answer #5 · answered by LG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(I fixed it for you)
Ever since you left me I've been feeling unlike myself . I've been so sad and depressed . I just want closure to my heart and to know what I did wrong to deserve your hate. I thought you loved me. Can you just tell me why and what went wrong, because I'm still hurting inside. Ashanti
2007-08-04 11:52:47 · answer #6 · answered by Gustav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't even write him the letter, he is a loser who was using his age and experience to take advantage of you .you will learn this as you get older. He probably was cheating all alone and why would you want him back if he cheated....you are basically telling him its ok. You should not settle for him.
2007-08-04 11:48:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 09:58:44 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if u still care so much about him.... talk 2 him. This same thing happened 2 me (or close 2 it) I ended up giving him a second chance and now wer great and im 100% sur wer guna stay that way!! But when he cheated me n him had only been 2gether 4 like a month... so in ur situation idk... :(
2007-08-04 11:50:27 · answer #9 · answered by Chelsie A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...it is normal for you to feel a little sad when you break up with someone close to you....and I know how you feel...when I have gotten close with some guys...you and they get so close and do so much together...to be apart from them feels wrong....
...don't feel like you did anything wrong....the whole thing with him being five years older...with you only being 16...it was more like he was too old for you....later it doesn't matter as much...age difference....
...he might have just wanted to see other girls...not anything against you....just his decision to see other girls...
...if you feel the need to contact him...all you have to say is that when you saw him the other day...you still didn't feel ready to talk with him....and that is all...
...if he broke your heart by cheating on you....he is the not nice one....you didn't do anything wrong...
...focus on other things...get involved in things you like to do...get out....with other friends...and have fun in life...and also focus on what you want to do with your life...and do that...and you will meet other guys......
2007-08-04 12:02:39 · answer #10 · answered by answergirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋