Hey Zorgy dunno if you think you found her, or if ya found her but there is one thing I do know and that is this, because I am married and went through thtis before I found "the 1" we met and it was a month and a half later he asked me 2 marry him, we have kids and we struggle but there is 1 thing about it when I look @ him I find him as attractive as I did the day we 1st met, honestly, and he does me 2, we keep the flame burning in our relationship, and that helps. When we met he used this line on me....."my parents knew each other a couple months and my dad proposed and 2 weeks later they married and they have been together for almost 59 years, and I thought hey, woth odds like that maybe its a good idea, lol...it was, and I hope that you get the same experience, take care and good luck my friend....by the way if "she" ans your ?, pick her ans. and find out where she stands on your point of view, but here is something you have that I dont and that is a widowers experience, you are vulnerable now and she maybe knows this, if she does let her know that if she needs time or space to sort things out or ask ?s then its ok, and let her know so she is secure and comfortable where you stand and what you want out of the relationship, best wishes!
2007-08-04 17:14:27
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answered by kelly_hotma 4
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Anything is possible really. I'm sure it's happened randomly.
2007-08-04 18:03:51
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answered by Gornographic Headache Machine 3
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