HELP My MOM IS BEING STALKED?

Question

I'm 12

My Mom is the Boss at a nursing home

A 61 yr old employee told someone else to tell her that she will be sorry

The Nursing Home dosent have seceruty

She Refuses to get a bodyguard

Or Secruty

She Thinks this a joke she said not to worry about it and that she wasnt worried and i asked what would she do if i had a stalker then she said she would take care of it.That dosent make sense

WHAT SHOULD I DO

He was fired and spotted in the buidling again yesterday

Answer 1

There are legitimate reasons he could have been in the building like picking up his last paycheck or visiting a friend or relative.

Answer 2

She should go to the police and at least let them know what was said and file a complaint to have put on record. The police would be able to check it out, they may be able to scare this person enough to make him behave.

She would need to take the person who was told to tell this to her with her when she goes to file a complaint so that that person can confirm that a threat was made towards her.

She really should report this who knows if this person has done this to other people before, the person is obviously sick and is in need some help. This may be the only way that this person will get the help that they need.

It's always smart to report a threat to the police and it is also wise to take every threat seriously. She needs to know if this person has a history of this sort of thing or weather the person is violent at all.

Tell her to at least report it to the police so that she will be able to know weather he is violent or if he has a history of this sort of thing. The person may be harmless but it is always better to be safe than sorry.

By not taking steps to report the person, she could be putting others at risk as well as her self. Tell her some of these thing and it may help her to step up and do what is needed.

God bless, I really hope that she will report the incident to the police for her own safety as well as others.

Answer 3

Don't fret too much. Tell your Mom you are concerned and ask her to call and check in with you when she can until you feel better. No threat should be ignored. The nursing home will have some liability if the threat was made to another employee and they ignored it. So if they think there is a present danger, they will take action. Workplace violence is not something any employer wants to deal with.

Answer 4

I can relate to your being worried. As said though she is the adult and well there is little that you can do if she is not worried.
I would though sit down and speak with her as said and let her know how you feel In these days heck you can never tell what someone may do.Not saying that to scare you but it is fact. Tell her it concerns and scares you.

i have to wonder though how are you getting all this information? is your mom coming home telling you?if that is the case She sorry needs to Rethink what she is doing you are her child why would if she is not worried would she keep scaring the heck out of you?? that is just NUTS.
Sit her down and tell her and let her know that If in fact she does not intend on handling it like the adult she is then stop coming home scaring the heck out of you with it

Sadly though still little you can do at 12. Call the home and ask to speak to someone higher up and relate your fears IF she keeps it up.

Answer 5

I don't think she's being stalked... even if the 61 year old employee was serious with that threat at the time he/she was fired or whatever, chances are they have cooled down by now and realize they have so much to lose in harming another person for whatever reason... I wouldn't stress out over it, it might be something of concern but trust your mom in not hyperventilating over it

Answer 6

You're mom isn't being stalked. Technically, she wasn't even being threatened. All she has is hearsay that an employee said that she would be sorry, which could also mean anything if it was said and not necessarily be meant as a threat.

Your mom is the adult here and if she doesn't think the supposed situation is threatening in nature, then just go with that until something more substantial happens, if it does.

Answer 7

Go to the police and get a restraining order and have her tell the cops who it was that tipped her off that "she'll be sorry". Also Mom needs some pepper spray and maybe a bullet proof vest, you can get them in white to maybe match her uniform at the army navy supply store.

Answer 8

unfortunaly you can't do anything for her. in the eyes of the law if she's of sound mind and body and over 18yo she's an adult and needs to make a report if she wants to.
if she decides to report it she can call the non emergency # for the police and report the problem. an officer will be assigned and contact her for more infomation.
unless she shows up and causes a problem- then she needs to call 911 and get the po there right away
sorry but she's an adult and needs to report it if/when she wants to

Answer 9

Perhaps it is a joke, but since you're really worried, talk to her about how you feel. Maybe she'll agree to get security after realizing how freaked you really are. And if you have proof or a strong suspicion (with evidence or something), contact the police about it.

Answer 10

just waitr and keep a good eye on that old man and if u think he is going to do anything to ur mom and then call the police and tell them that u think ur mom is going to get harmed n=by a man and just to come by ur moms office(or they dont have to) just for a warning....or just tell them on the phone that u dont know for sure and that its just to keep on the safe side and tell them that ull phone them bac if any thing bad or dangerous happens...........hope this heps and its also sweet of u to care for ur mom that way...aww