I've actually 'been' through this. I was dating someone seriously for just over a year, when I found out his ex girlfriend was pregnant ... by him. That's 'how' I found out he was cheating.
I didn't send him for a DNA test. I simply shipped him out of my life. If he had wanted to get the test later on, that's fine .. but I had no intention of keeping someone that deceitful and dishonest in my life from that point on. I haven't spoken to him since, but I *have* spoken to the girl who got pregnant. After finding out she had no more idea about me than I did about her, she tossed his lazy butt too ... and we're very good friends. Funny how things work out, lol.
2007-08-04 10:43:26
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answered by Jaded 5
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well if you already know that HE was the one who impregnated the girl why do you need to send the DNA test? But also its not wrong to send him a DNA test but i suggest asking him about it first. He`ll get mad if u just send the DNA test, it shows that your dead sure he is the father. u get it???
2007-08-04 10:40:36
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answered by Gems 3
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Why bother? They are expensive and none of your problem since he isn't your boyfriend or husband anymore hopefully.
I would dump him because he had unprotected sex with her and if you are married to him probably did with you too. He risked your life to cheat on you, I would be very angry. He will be supporting his child for the next 18 years so if you were married to him that is money he can't use to support your future children or current children.
2007-08-04 10:41:50
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answered by shipwreck 7
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that is the proof , he was cheating on u.
im sorry if that happen to you.
you have right to ask him to test or that girl she does not know he is the daddy . then poor girl.
2007-08-04 10:40:10
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answered by Anonymous
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It would be right to send him his walking papers and tell him to get lost.
2007-08-04 10:39:00
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answered by 2Cute2B4Got 7
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not at all.
its something you would want to know, but still, thats aginst the rules. dump him like at old sardine can.
2007-08-04 10:41:40
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answered by patstovan 3
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well if you guys are married then i think you have the right. or even if you have any kids with him
hope this helps
2007-08-04 10:40:49
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answered by Star Fire 1
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no just send it to him to let him know that he was a jerk
2007-08-04 10:40:11
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answered by nejifan1234 3
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yes and that would not be all that I would send him either
2007-08-04 10:39:08
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answered by heavenlli_61 5
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if you are the one having a baby.. you do whatever the hell you want to!
2007-08-04 10:42:48
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answered by vintagecrayon21 2
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