I was with my ex for over a year...and 4 months ago we broke up. He said he needed space. Well a week later he called crying he wanted me back, he even started talking about marriage...I took him back because I love him so much. Well it happened again! He broke up with me...saying he needed space again...even said he didnt love me. I just dont understand...we were even looking for an apartment together, and It was his idea! I cant believe I let him hurt me again. I just dont understand whats wrong with this guy
2007-08-04 09:56:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also Im 24 and hes 22...maybe hes confused and doesnt know if he ready for a commitment that serious yet...idont know :(
2007-08-04 09:57:47 · update #1
Think about all the bad things. It sounds like he is just using you and you don't really want to be with someone like that. Find someone else you can fall in love with. You're still very young and he's even younger. ;)
2007-08-04 09:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by Maria2Blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 03:13:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get over a broken heart is not to move on to fast, that just leads to more problems and possibly another broken heart. The best thing to do is give yourself sometime and than slowly move back into the dating scene. Take some time for yourself and get your mind off of him. The best way to do that is spend more time with your family and friends, relax and have a good time. That is the best advice.
2007-08-04 10:07:28 · answer #3 · answered by Mark B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems you're adult enough to know the answer to your own question. Next time - and there just might be, before you THINK of taking him back, talk to him. He may not be what you are looking for. But talking to him will/may answer all those other questions you have and can help put whatever feelings you have for him to rest and really end it for you so you could move on.
2007-08-04 10:00:17 · answer #4 · answered by Brown'n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as though he's selfish and self centred.
Keep yourself busy and involved with family and friends.Think of how he hurt you twice and get angry with that.
We've all done things we regret so don't beat yourself up over this.Vow to never make the same mistake again and move on with your life.You deserve much better.
2007-08-04 10:05:21 · answer #5 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres no easy or fast way to let go of someone and they the 3rd times a charm but dont buy into it--i was with my oldest sons mom for 4 years and it was forever b4 i got over her but i recently got with a girl and we was together of and on for 6 months but the mind games of i love you today but not today sucked and if you let it dwell it will eat you alive--if he comes back and you take him back be lerry and step in with one foot dont jump in with both
2007-08-04 10:04:53 · answer #6 · answered by radicalroberts2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-02-06 04:54:06 · answer #7 · answered by Rocio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am not gonna tell u that he is not in love with u , but am gonna say that he is still very young and doesn't know exactelly what he wants,
trust me, step over your heart and move on to meet your life time love because he is not !
2007-08-04 10:04:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get involved in a hobby passion or interest of some activity you love or want to learn about. pray and move on.
2007-08-04 09:58:26 · answer #9 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like it's time to move on. just ignore him when he says he wants to try again. remember the saying if you let it happen once, shame on him. but if you let it happen twice, shame on you.
2007-08-04 10:18:33 · answer #10 · answered by love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋