well. me and my girlfriend have eben going out a while and a week ago or so she invited me over to her house. i knew that she wanted to do more then just make out so eventually i just went for it but when i stuck my hand down there she hadnt shaved. how the HELL am i supposed to tell her to fix that problem without hurting her feelings or making her mad or anything.
2007-08-04 09:52:56 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her that you think she would be even sexier if she shaved a little bit.
2007-08-04 09:56:35 · answer #1 · answered by Maria2Blue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tactfully. First let her know how much you like a shaved woman. Second, mention how wonderful it would feel to both of you. I think shaving or waxing is the only way to go. I didn't shave until I was in my mid twenties and I only did it because my lover ( who later became my husband) asked me to. Its a cleaner feeling, the sensations during sex and foreplay are more intense and I would never go back to being hairy.
There's really no way to tell her how you feel but to tell her. Just say that you like ______ about her, but that you would like to make a request of her. Give her the reasons why you prefer shaved and hope for the best.
2007-08-04 09:59:35 · answer #2 · answered by Melanie J 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend doesnt shave and when I first found out I was like oh crap! But I tried it anyway and now I dont want her to shave. I know alot of girls do shave or trim but some girls dont like that. To some girls its a security thing and some girls get irritated skin when they shave. It shouldnt be too hard to just casually talk about it and tell her that you like it better if she would shave or trim. But don be a wuss. Try it at least once maybe even three times. You might like it. I know i do! lol. P.S. And dont ask her to do anything that you wouldnt do i.e. If you want her to get a bikiini wax then you should get one too. Or if you want her to shave then you better be spreading the shaving cream on the frank and beans too!!! lol.
2007-08-04 10:03:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow ...your gonna complain how much hair she has down stairs....You ungrateful fool your lucky she even lets you near it......It doesn't seem to be her problem . it's sounds like it's your problem. It's very natural too have hair down there. So what you have to beat around the bush to get to the berry,but if you must insist and want to be polite about it. Act as if it doesn't bother you next time but be a little rough (very gentle) and snag some of the hair if she says that hurts offer too shave it for her. She might let you or maybe get the hint and do it herself.
She might have a very bad skin reaction to shaving down stairs. So you might have to put up with the carpet.
2007-08-04 10:11:20 · answer #4 · answered by thebaked 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Casually bring it up in a conversation, if you ever talk about sex, or sexual things that's when you bring it up, mention the fact that you really love when I woman is shaved down there, tell her why, tell her it's a turn on and tell her it really makes going down on her a more pleasurable experience.
I keep it clean down there, but if I didn't and my BF mentioned it in a conversation one day you bet your *** I'd be in the shower with a razor as soon as I got home. lol
2007-08-04 09:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by LiL' Momma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some girls dont feel the need to shave but maybe you should try to redirect the question so she asks you if she should.
like say do you think i should shave for you? would you like that? something like that and when she answers she will probably ask you too. and then you can tell her cuz she DID ask, but be nice about it
2007-08-04 09:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by cleo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel like that needs to be a woman's choice. Some women don't feel comfy doing that, but if it's something you want to put on her mind I think you should just talk about it. Be honest and real with her. Let her know how you feel. You two may come to a common ground, but if it's not what she wants then try to get used to it!
2007-08-04 10:01:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls don't mind at all. Just tell her! My girlfriend has offered many times to shave for me, but I am sexually turned on by a bush of hair down there. I find it so sexy. All guys are different.
2007-08-04 09:58:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do the shaving for her. Done in the right environment, it can be a turn on for her. Depending on your age and the level of the relationship, that advice should be taken with caution.
But yeah, tell her you want to shave her. In the shower. Naked. With strawberries.
2007-08-04 09:57:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
aww... thats awful... I would ask her if she prefers shaved or unshaved trimmed or untrimmed, and hopefully she will in turn do the same. Then well the rest would be self explanatory, that is for your sake I would think... SO if she says she prefers shaved, be prepared to shave your stuff.
2007-08-04 09:57:46 · answer #10 · answered by always wonderin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋