Me and my BF r 11 hours apart and i only get 2 see him 1 maybe 2 times a yr...
And i love him he means the world 2 me....
But what can i do 2 show him i love him b/c i tell him i love him but sometimes i feel that that is just not enough...
Like what can i do to show him the next time i see him?
And dont say have sex b/c i dont believe in premarital sex
Plz anwser seriously
Thank you!
2007-08-04 08:30:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
-Send him one rose at a time everyday for one month. (Your anniversary month.)
-Send him something he can carry in his wallet to remember you by. Like a portrait of you with scripture on the back.
-Write him a poem.
-Buy him and yourself identical promise rings to wear that he will always remember you by. Have both inscribed with your names on the inside or outside and give him the one with your name and you keep the one with his name, so that no matter how far you both are from one another you can always reflect on the rings and the love you both share.
Hope this helps. -God Bless.
2007-08-11 11:45:50 · answer #1 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel.
I don't have a bf right now myself, but I have a best guy friend who is ten hours apart from me....we've known each other for eight years and don't get to see each other a lot either.
He was going to come visit me then he had to have dental surgery and that took up most of his days off from work this summer....so I sent him a little present to let him know I was thinking about him.
You could talk to him on the phone, or im, or write letters, and the next time you see him tell him how you feel.
2007-08-04 08:35:29 · answer #2 · answered by poeticjustice 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him in simple words how you truly feel...write him a letter, and write about some of the things about him that you seem to love so much...like lets say he could always make you laugh..tell him that, and tell him that you love it, and that you ARE completly grateful for it..and soo lucky to have him and to have found someone who could mean soo much to you, even being so far away, and i know everyone is saying distance isnt the best thing to benefit a relationship...but if you truly love eachother, distance won't ruin the relationship, i think that true love could get you through anything if you let it..plus-the next time you see him, dont hesitate in letting him know how much he means to you. give him a hug and/or kiss, and let him know that you love him and wish there was a way for you to be closer to him all the time..tell him you love being with him, and love having himnear you. Just say what you feel, and that's the best way to go..
--Good luck!
2007-08-12 08:15:25 · answer #3 · answered by super.girl06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Randomly show up to see him. Like instead of planning it out, just show up and tell him you missed him like crazy and couldn't stand being away for another minute. Or something like that.
Um...is there anyway you could move closer to him? I know thats really extreme, but work it out in the next year to be able to move in the same town as him.
I know that's extreme.
Take him out on a really romantic date. Make it as romantic and cheesy and just make it the two of you. Like when I mean cheesy, like go ALL out. Candlelight dinner, moonlit midnight walk, buy HIM flowers, dress up in your nicest clothes. Make it as memorable as possible and it could help the two of you to get through those days you aren't together by remembering those memories.
Hope some of this helped! :)
2007-08-04 08:37:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my bf livs in africa - i live in europe... i feel ur pain
try writing letters by the way... it really strengthens the bond as compared to email - and is waaaayyy more exciting...
sit wiv him wen u c him n hav a serius cnversation. tell him strayt up that u sumtyms feel he duznt understand how much u love him - and tell him - NOT poetically - what he means to u... examples of REAL examples (lol) are the things i tell my boyfrend
like the fact that i can see a future with him, or that when i plan things i always want his input, or the fact that i value the things he advises me with, or the characteristics i admire....
good luck!!
2007-08-04 08:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by Tisha DC 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i have been in your shoes 13 years ago. and i do believe that distance is not a hindrance for love to grow. if your bf really loves you anything that you feel that comes from your heart and the sincerity dwells, i know your bf knows that every single thing that comes from you and everything that you do is the best thing that ever happened to both of you goodluck!!
2007-08-04 08:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by netz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
gurl, keep ur communication lines open...make him feel ur juz beside him all the time.A simple gesture of thoughtfulness means a lot. Send him sweet messages...or a song over the net.
2007-08-11 22:31:33 · answer #7 · answered by Neriz M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hallmark has a whole section on this
2007-08-11 23:38:31 · answer #8 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make yourself 10 minutes apart. If you want your relationship to progress perhaps one of you needs to move closer to the other. Or you could cut off your ear...it's been done before. :)
2007-08-04 08:37:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
send text messages sayiny how much you love him and always look your best.
2007-08-11 20:37:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋