I no this is not really a R&S question, but I was just curious...
I'm not saying that I would or wouldn't do it... but i'm just curious
If you loved someone but managed to let them get away because it was your own fault and later realised what a monumental error in judgement you made and wanted to make it right again for worthy reasons...
and you knew they were about to get married...
Would you go to the wedding and object to it?
Obviously anounciating all of the appropriate reasons for doing so of course...
2007-08-04 08:20:07 · 13 answers · asked by Darringer 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I meant to say "... I know this is not a R&S question..."
Forgive my spelling... it's been a long and tiring day!
2007-08-04 08:21:43 · update #1
I know some people would say your just being selfish... but what if you weren't
what if it was just that you didn't think that you would be happy with anyone else if you let that person get away foor good?
2007-08-04 08:23:13 · update #2
I would IF I believed that they did not want to be in the Union of marriage. Like if they were a wife-beater ... hiding sexual orientation ... hiding gambling compultions ... basically, if the person was going blind into a situation I thought they could not handle and would change their coarse of action if they had full knowledge.
From what you describe it's 50/50 if they love this person.
2007-08-04 08:35:13 · answer #1 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"what if it was just that you didn't think that YOU would be happy with anyone else if you let that person get away foor good? [emphasis added]."
If the other person doesn't feel the same way (which would seem to be the case since he or she is marrying someone else), then you are being selfish... and it's time to move on.
2007-08-04 15:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by Deof Movestofca 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well think of it this way, if you meant something to her she probably wouldn't be marrying someone else, thereby the motive is selfish
2007-08-04 15:26:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No....
It is not for you to object to a marriage that they are going into with free-will. It is now thier decision to carry on together without you. You time has passed and must step aside.
2007-08-04 15:32:58 · answer #4 · answered by Erie_Irish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - & FYI: it is also illegal in most places
Think about them not you - it's their day not yours...sorry for your loss but in the end if it's meant to be it'll just happen.
Then you know you can never be the person responsible for crushing someone's dreams...
2007-08-04 15:26:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Had I known, I would most CERTAINLY have got her out of there before anything could happen...instead of having to wait over twenty years.
2007-08-04 15:46:46 · answer #6 · answered by Jed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would tell the person how much they meant to me.
2007-08-04 15:53:11 · answer #7 · answered by Terri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you cant force someone to love you thats crazy
hes the fool imo he knows what he lost
2007-08-04 15:23:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way would be to mail nude photos of one of the parties to the other
2007-08-04 15:35:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No idea. What is this love thing you keep saying?
2007-08-04 15:26:28 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋