2007-08-04 07:49:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-08-04 07:52:43 · update #1
omg......
may the lord have mercy on you
2007-08-04 08:07:47 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Honesty ♥.•´ `*.¸ ♥ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
maybe your question should have been:
i let my cousin break of a piece and get me pregnant.
this is tough, i don't know what to say.
in most families blood relatives are excluded and everyone knows this line cannot be crossed. in fact, universally, family is excluded, even in the animal kingdom.
a pride of lions will put out the young males before they become frisky, so they can't mount anything. wolves are more strict and only the matriarch can get anything. you jumped the gun.
in korea, a man and woman with the same last name can't get married. it is believed they come from the same clan and blood line even if they don't know each other and come from different regions. in other words two koreans with the last name kim cannot share meat.
in the future, you want to find a a man from outside the family.
but some how your avatar tells a story.
you need to lock up shop and not let just anybody who want it have break of a piece. thats how women generally run, the door is almost always chained until they are ready to open it.
make sure you chain the door.
if you are married as stated above, stay with your husband. could you live with the shame for a lifetime for divorcing your husband to marry a family member?
try to value yourself more highly.
2007-08-04 15:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by ramni222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you and your cousin love each other? Is your relationship marriage material? If so, then it's pretty obvious.
If on the other hand you and your cousin simply gave into a physical attraction and have no real relationship, don't rush into a marriage. Take some time and explore your relationship first. If everything works out, then you can get married. But if you find that the two of you are not that compatible, then you can make other arrangements instead of going through a messy divorce.
2007-08-04 14:59:34 · answer #3 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are trying to bring into this world more folks like the Royal Family, then by all means you've started on the right track. The same side of the coin is, perhaps you and he should take up the banjo. I understand that there are plenty of mobile homes available in southern Appalacia that you can bring your child up in so that you will all be in good company.
But in all honesty, don't take the advise of Frank Knows All (or anyone else that gives such wonderful advise). Dares are just dumb. Use Answers to actually "answer" questions that you need help with, don't use it to goad people into thinking you are a fool. If you follow such a nut case, you will become the fool that people are already starting to think you are.
I hope this helps. Good luck.
2007-08-04 15:04:06 · answer #4 · answered by ngc7331 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
how long have you been pg?
conceiving a baby with close relatives are not advisable because it may cause some birth defects.
so before you decide anything, make sure to have your baby checked. doctors have a special screening for common abnormality, it can be done as early as 12 weeks.
but it's totally up to you whether you want to keep the baby or not.
as for marrying him, well.. do you love him?
remember that forever is a long time, and if you don't plan to get married forever, then.. just don't.
2007-08-04 15:00:07 · answer #5 · answered by little muses' dad is in love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is best for the child? And what will make both of you the happiest over the long run? That is how to choose.
However, if he is a 1st cousin, there is a increased chance of birth defects. An MD can advise.
2007-08-04 14:52:35 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are sure you love him do it not for the sake of the baby
only marry for you're sake Aime sure you will give the baby all the love he needs without getting into an unhappy marriage
do not listen to what other people say listen to you're heart
good luck
2007-08-04 15:02:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should do what you want do you love him and do you care is your family bothered you make the descision and do what you want can you live your life with him and how will your child cope
have a long think and listen carefully im sure as a child this would be the wildest dream
2007-08-04 14:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by ShazayD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should only marry him if you really love him and can stand being with him forever. Otherwise you will need to tell you parents and figure things out from there.
2007-08-04 14:53:16 · answer #9 · answered by triath91 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not take the pregnancy into account in your decision (In itself it is not a good enough reason to get married)
If you love him...then, yes. If you don't...then, no.
I wish you well, whatever choice you make.
2007-08-04 14:56:00 · answer #10 · answered by alan h 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
... '~'... if its your cuzin i have no idea but that baby is proably not gonna come out healthy cuz it need 2 different bloods to make its own not 2 from the same family you should et the baby checked out as soon as possible
2007-08-04 14:54:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋