why is it that most of you when a relationship has just ended,do you not even wait till the bed is cold ,do you have another woman straight in the bed without a thought for the woman you have been just seeing....seriously why??is it to hurt an ex or just that you have no feelings?i see it happen to me and other women all the time.
2007-08-04 06:52:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by this question it means in both break up situations...not just that the woman has broke up with the man...both types of break ups.
2007-08-04 07:05:02 · update #1
You shouldn't group all men in that category..... I didn't take another woman to bed for 5 years after I lost the woman I loved. There are those of us who don't get over a woman, as easy as it is for others.
But if a guy can do that so quickly, then the answer is a very simple one. He never loved that woman in the first place.... You have to understand that the words "I love you" is overused, and meaningless in these days. They are meant to manipulate a woman out of her clothes anymore, there is no more emotion to them than saying the dishes need to be washed. Same for a woman, though. If any one can bed another so soon, there was never true love there.
I don't believe in having sex with anyone, I only believe in making love. One is empty, the other fulfilling. You do the math on that.....
2007-08-04 07:13:41 · answer #1 · answered by darkpoet3000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well from the times i have done it is because women tend to take it a lil more serious then men and when we know the relationship is near its end the less we care because we not seein eye to eye so to keep from being sad and lonley nothing makes us feel better then a new women with a new personalitiy and convo yeah i know it sounds bad but thats how most guys keep from being so caught up that when the woman leaves u then u cant accept it so u follow her around hoping shell take u back or u jsut lose ur mind and do like the men on the movies do when there girl has left them but men grow up a take chances sometimes so just keep ur head up and dont give up
2007-08-04 07:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never done it, but I think I understand the phenomenon. Sometimes it's spite. The guy is saying to his ex, "look, I don't need you, I've got other options." But mostly I think it's just how guys deal with a break up. They find someone else as quickly as possible so they feel better about themselves.
2007-08-04 06:57:19 · answer #3 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOT ALL MEN!!!!! those guys didn't care from the beginning, they where probability just trying to get some action. If a relationship really meant something to a guy he will have a really hard time finding someone as special as what you are.
2007-08-04 06:58:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if we are broken up, then it's time to move on.. It seems you want your cake and eat it too.. You want to dump your man, but not allow him to see anyone? That's asking for too much
As for the other situation, it probably just means he was always looking for someone better but waited to dump you until he found her.
The same situations happen to men too..
2007-08-04 06:55:55 · answer #5 · answered by ........ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex makes guys feel good, and dating in general. If the girl broke up with him, he needs something to release his feelings somehow. IF he broke up with her, and had another girl that fast, it was probably because the new girl was already a factor.
2007-08-04 07:31:28 · answer #6 · answered by Mozer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has feelings,but somebody that gets invovled right out of a situation is trying to fill a void which is wrong
2007-08-04 06:56:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, we are insercure about ourselves. We have feelings for our ex and when the break-up happens, we feel like our manhood is takin away.
2007-08-04 06:56:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sorry for what happen with u. i think not all men r same. wat hapen with u also happens with men. even women behave in this insane way sometimes. dont really have a perticular answer to ur question coz it depends upon person to person. may b the reason is lust. lust for body lust for women lust for sex. u should not think of such men/women much. be happy
2007-08-04 06:58:54 · answer #9 · answered by anjish 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's a need to be close to someone, and thier so called need for sex. lesson one, in the end men are not more than horny teens at any age;)
2007-08-04 06:57:24 · answer #10 · answered by jt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋