my parents say i am too young to have sex with me bf, but i am already 17 and i really love my bf. so i want to know how to have sex, so i can feel the sensation before it happens.
2007-08-04 06:37:41 · 13 answers · asked by Eunice W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
17 is too young as well, you may love your boyfriend but how do you know hes going to be the one, you'd give your virginity up for someone that wasnt wroth it, just wait and dont rush into it, youre 17 and youre not suppose to be thinking about this crap, where are your girlfriends and school events, go to the mall and stop thinking about sex beforeyou regret it
2007-08-04 06:48:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
feel the sensation "before" it happens? Wouldn't this be like giving money to thieves to know what it is like to be robbed?
To lose it without commitment is not right. Once you give up your virginity, you won't get it back. Unless there is a commitment between u and ur bf, just to have sex is not worth it right now.
Sex is meant for pleasure between man and woman, but also procreating. And MANY teenagers and young men and women still make the mistake, thinking they're immune from getting pregnant on the first time.
From someone who went on both sides of the fence on this issue, married sex is the best. The love, commitment, and value we have in marriage makes intimacy even better.
AND it gets better with age and trust.
Wait. If it's true love, it will withstand the tests of time and be worth the wait.
2007-08-04 06:48:20 · answer #2 · answered by n9wff 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
17 is really too young. Sure it's commonplace these days, but that doesn't make it right. You're not even out of high school yet. What would happen if you got pregnant? Your future would be seriously impacted. Finish school, start college, decide where you want to go in life. Then you can worry about sex. If you absolutely insist on it, make sure you take every precaution to avoid any diseases or pregnancy. Learn to masturbate to take the edge off, but don't rush into anything.
2007-08-04 07:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are right and they're trying to save you the heartache of losing your bf after you've given him your virginity. I speak form experience. After I gave myself whole hearted to my boyfriend, he left me with a baby to raise which he doesn't support. I love my daughter, and I was 26 with a Master's degree when I got pregnant, but it was soooo scary. You barely have finished high school, you have a lot more to accomplish before you risk pregnancy, STDs, and general long lasting heartache. I miss my ex so bad because he's the father of my daughter and I see a bit of him everyday. I'm now 30 and the pain is still there, and it's supposed to be because we're designed to have children with the man who is there to take care of us and the child, not just some guy we like a lot. If you and your bf can raise a child and he's going to marry you (before you have sex) then stick with it.
2007-08-04 06:49:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why that hurry girl?! Your parents are obviously so right but sounds you are drifting away from both their and our advice.
Anyways, Are you ready to accept someone even if he is your lover that close to your body without even knowing the simplest side effects and ways of protecting yourself from what's not needed to occur to you?!
If having all the previous protection done .. are you ready for the more complicated which should be pshycological and responsibility burdens as a consequences? Mainly am not talking about pregnancy if you are fortunate to prevent in that early age but am talking about how to remian you two sincere and never to regret being fast and furious like you both are now? Never abuse your body now dear ... listen up and decide. I have nothing to gain from advising you but certainly wont be so happy in seeing you a miser!
Experience is my sweet bitter tutor.
2007-08-04 06:44:35 · answer #5 · answered by Sara007 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You probably are too young, But the main issue here is... If you're 17 and don't know how to have sex, you're DEFINITELY not ready, regardless of your age.
On another note, you should probably wait until you guys are REALLY ready. I know how much it's tempting you, it tempts me every day. But I love my girlfriend enough to know that having sex now would probably ruin both of our lives.
2007-08-04 07:48:21 · answer #6 · answered by Mozer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont rush into things...i loved my bf when i first did it with him and now i hate him and i regret that i ever did it with him. There are a lot of books out there that explain everything.
2007-08-04 06:47:50 · answer #7 · answered by sweethearts20002001 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
something to think about, are you responsible enough to raise a child in the event you become pregnant. Its better to wait until your married before having sex.
2007-08-04 06:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by ken s 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. You are a skank.
2. Don't have premarital sex, it's a sin and you'll go to Hell.
3. I hope you get an STD.
2007-08-04 06:44:01 · answer #9 · answered by Joseph 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
just love your Boyfriend more & more so that your parents can feel that u both r in TRUE love.
They'll automatically allow u both to go out & have SAFE SEX .
2007-08-04 07:02:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋