A sister who was in my church ministry is trying to reach me, wanting me to meet her one to one. She tried to reach me several times. We haven't talked for two years. she found me through website. I dont feel close to her and I dont want to start relationship. If I call her, she will probably start calling me all the time like she used to. Do I have to feel nice and call her, say hi or just ignore? What would you do as brothers and sisters in Christ?
2007-08-04 06:21:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Take it like a man.
2007-08-04 06:24:33 · answer #1 · answered by Potatoe Plague 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-13 23:05:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is kind of a hard one to answer. But I will say that if you do meet her, make sure it is not too private; and definitely during daylight hours. Maybe a bowling alley or restaurant. Some where like that that is semi-private. You must always treat any woman, including her with respect and dignity, etc. This is the closed I would come to being alone with her. You can then comfortably shoot the breeze regarding old times and how each have been faring etc. Take a note pad so she can give you names of persons she knows to pray for.
2007-08-04 06:38:23 · answer #3 · answered by 1saintofGod 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Getting in a relationship with someone at church is like going to bankruptcy court to find a business partner. Anyone you meet in a church ministry is going to be trouble.
2007-08-04 06:38:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be close to your family, no matter what.
How have you been able to NOT see her for 2 YEARS??!?
2007-08-04 06:30:18 · answer #5 · answered by Glamourous Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST.... I would Only Speak to her.... VIA... Phone!
I would be Perfectly HONEST... with her and ask her.... WHY ARE you now contacting me... after two years?
Although I perceive.... THAT... there may have been some... HISTORY... between you TWO?
FEELINGS... always can change!
Thanks, RR
2007-08-04 06:27:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call her but let her know you are busy now and can not drop every thing for her.
2007-08-04 06:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to ignore her just talk to her and see why see needs to talk to you,and if she wants to take it futher just be honest with her and tell her that you are not interested,you dont even have to see her in person tell her over the net,tell her hi and dont give any reason to think that you might want to go futher.
2007-08-04 06:57:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does the word Platonic mean anything to her?
2007-08-04 06:26:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reconciling is possible as long as both of you are still alive. Make it right with her.
2007-08-04 06:24:44 · answer #10 · answered by Nina, BaC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋