ex calls me after almost 6mos of no communication from i guess his new #. He asked how i was doing, i said i'm good. He said, "i've been thinking about you a lot, and i miss you." i said oh ok, that's cool. he was like, i was thinking we could chill together like we used to. i told him, things are different now (implying i've got a new man---i'm single, but not for him to know--lol), it's 11pm And i haven't talked to u in almost 6mos. he was like, um, i tried calling you a few times, but no answer. i was like ok. then said, but i wanted to know if your # was still the same (i'm thinking whateva, and why?), then he was like seriously though i really miss you a lot and you've been on my mind. he said that a few more times, and was like i wanted to get that off my chest. i was like oh ok, that's fine, nothing wrong with sayin' how u feel. we broke up 'cause he got shady and he says he didn't cheat, but he's w/the older chic last i knew (who buys him sh**). why'd he have to call?
2007-08-04 02:50:30 · 25 answers · asked by just me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He hoped you would be thrilled to hear from him and fall at his feet for him to take advantage of . He has learned that a good partner is hard to find and you should not treat someone that is with you disrespectful or you will lose them. Don't talk with him. He does not deserve your kindness. Tell him you are doing great without him and you do not wish to revisit those days.
2007-08-04 02:56:09 · answer #1 · answered by justclicktherubyslippers 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am thinking that the reason that he called was that he just has been dumped or he can not get with anyone. And he thinks he might be able to either get back together with you or well get you know. Men generally turn to there ex-'s when it seems like no other women is interested in them. All I have to say is watch out. Tred lightly.
2007-08-04 03:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by Trouble 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He called because he is very immature and selfish and does not have a clue what a meaningful relationship entails Have you heard the song Drop that Zero and get yourself a Hero, well. Don't allow him to play mind games with you, obviously you have had time to heal and get over him, continue to move forward without the player.
2007-08-04 03:06:11 · answer #3 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple he was sure the grass is greener on the other side. He couldn't find anything better and he wants you back. If you take him back be very cautious and make him squirm. Meet him anyway and have fun making him squirm a little then don't give him the right time of day.
2007-08-04 02:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He called because the coin dropped and he found out you were pretty cool . Do yourself a favor and drop him like a hot potato. Next time he calls get rid of him. Life is too short . You will make better connections eventually and he is not it .
2007-08-04 02:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's a tryhard player. sorry if that's really harsh, but i'm thinking he just wants to be with multiple girls. He wants you to think about him; that in itself is an ego boost and he knew calling you like that and being so intense would mess you up. you probably really know he's not right for you to be with deep down; even if he was willing to dump his sh** buying p*mp to be with only you, they say 'once a cheater, always a cheater' and could you ever really trust him anyway? dont take it!
2007-08-04 03:03:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh my gad, the same happened to ame earlier this week. i'm 13 and my 14 year old bf texted me out of the middle of no where saying what's up i miss you wanna hang out somtime. i said yes. we broke up because i was going away for the summer. but know i'm back and he did'nt do anything wrong so i'm probably gonna go back out with him. as for you if he cheated and he misses you to bad for him he had you and didn't know what he had until it was gone. but if you like him, follow your heart. or tell him to stop calling you and go find someone new. hope this helps. xoxo
2007-08-04 02:58:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he could really miss you... or he could just be lonely. i guess the latter because if he was for real in missing you he wouldn't have waited six months. don't trust shady characters because they tend to hide the worse. i wouldn't trust him either if he had some older girl buying stuff for him. you did right by shrugging him off. he is just calling for a booty call.
2007-08-04 02:57:37 · answer #8 · answered by nothing's certain 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only reason exes call is to hook-up. He's not getting anything (or at least not as often as he wishes/needs), and he was trying to see if you'd bite and say, "Yeah, let's chill RIGHT NOW." You're over him I assume, so blow it off and carry on doing your thing.
2007-08-04 02:58:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps because the guiltiness is so Strong and this person need something to clean the dirty conscience.This kind of stuff take place all the times.Is nothing new or something to care about. Is just another loser.
2007-08-04 02:57:03 · answer #10 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋