How can a girl tell her father that she need a bra?

Question

How can an 11 year old girl tell her single father that she needs a training bra?

Answer 1

I lived with my Dad when I was a young girl--any "girl" things were really difficult for me to approach him about--embarrassing! I either told his girlfriend I needed to shop and she made the arrangements, or I told him I needed to shop for "girl stuff" and he'd give me money and take me to whatever store I needed, or I'd go with a friend to the store (friend's Moms are great with this situation). Remember, he's probably as wierd about it as you are :-)

Answer 2

honey ask dad to go shopping and since this your first take him to a non threatening place like wal mart and when you go by the bra section, say oh I think I need one of those, then keep going til you get to the girls section )size 7-14) and look for a training bra there. If you need help ask a clerk. keep looking and smiling at dad but just show him this is something you need and hopefully he will realize its time to have that talk with you about womanhood and blossoming. Here is the reality - daddy does not want to see his little girl grow up so fast. Daddy's little girl is ready to grow. I know some answers are gonna say talk to a friendly female who can help you bridge this but if dad is a single dad, he can do this with your help and guidance, good luck to you both

Answer 3

I agree with some of the other comments. Is there a trusted female friend you could perhaps turn to? If not, I would suggest that you approach your dad and tell him that you are getting older and there are certain things that older girls require. No offense, but he's not going to be much help shopping for a bra with you. You really need a woman's perspective. But if you are moving along that path, and need a training bra, your father needs to be aware, and there are things that he needs to sit down and discuss with you about the facts of life.

Answer 4

Hi! When I was younger, my friend told her father that the boys were making comments about how they could see through her shirt and could she please have a bra cause it made her really uncomfortable. p.s they went out that evening and she had a million bras when she came back. It's funny now looking back on that situation. If it is really embarrassing, then write a little note, stick it on the table and see what happens. Girlfriends? Aunts? Some stores will even measure you and everything so you get the right fit.

Answer 5

Just ask him to take you to a store to buy some girl stuff or ask him for some money to buy a bra. He should know that girls around the age of 11 need one. Or ask an aunty or older cousin

Answer 6

First, introduce something relative to adolescence. In between your discussion, politely ask your father this question: "Dad, don't you think it's now time for me to wear a bra considering my age? I believe fathers know this well. Besides don't be hesitant because father is a father. He will surely understand your needs. Just be frank with him after all -- for you He is the best father in the world!

Answer 7

It's not easy, it's embarrassing and uncomfortable, but you need to just come out and say it. Many department stores have women in the intimates section who will fit you for a bra. They measure you and help you pick out one that fits. The trick is getting your dad to get you to the store (or mall). I had to do this with my stepdaughter because her mom had her head in the clouds and didn't want to accept her little girl was growing up.

You're going to have to talk to your dad. It's not easy but just as hard, sometimes worse, is not wearing a bra when you need one and going to school and everyone knowing it.

Answer 8

Well, if you have a favorite aunt, or if you are close with your grandmother, you could mention it to either of them.
I know it's an embarrassing time, I used to be mortified when I went bra shopping with my mom.
I'm absolutely sure your father would understand, if you tried to talk to him.
If you're not comfortable talking to him face-to-face, why not write a note to him?
You could mention that you needed some "personal" items or "underwear" etc...
He will be more understanding than you give him credit for!

Answer 9

If you are the 11 year old girl, I would suggest speaking to an aunt, or any other close adult figure. They will probably just take you and once your father sees them in the laundry he will get the hint. If you want to speak directly to him, just ask. If you are embarrassed about asking, he probably will be embarrassed about hearing it. I would just tell him I need money and a ride to buy something personal. This is going to happen again when you get your period.

Answer 10

Hi dad I need to go get a training bra because I'm at the age of hitting perpetuity and unless you want dirty, hormone infested boys to be looking at my cheats then i would understand why you think it's not needed but other then that then yeah i need a training bra.