yesterday i was staying at my bfs ( hes 14 ) house and he tried to take my undrwear off, i told him to get away because it freaked me out. th next day he wouldnt answer my calls just because i didnt want to. we been together for like nearly 2 years now and i dont want to dump him, what shud i do ? ..
2007-08-04 00:06:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry, but i really think you shouldn't be with him. i know u must really like him, but he might not be the right kinda guy for you. i realize you must care about each other but you might want to take breaking up into serious consideration. but if you do stay with him make sure that you make it clear that yous not going to sleep with him. i hope things work out for you, i really do. good luck^^
2007-08-04 00:29:27 · answer #1 · answered by Fayth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
13 is too young to do that... I'm older than you, and I'm still a virgin. There's nothing wrong with saying no. Even though your boyfriend might be sweet, to be honest, guys around that age will do anything to get in a girl's pants. Instead of being too adult at a young age and giving in, be adult enough to refuse. A few years down the road when both of you have broken up, you'll be glad you didn't do that. And you're supposed to save that for your special someone in life, not just some boyfriend.
2007-08-04 07:19:30 · answer #2 · answered by marina 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Uhm, if you're uncomfortable with him doing things like that, tell him to shove off. Seriously...It should be more the woman's decision than the guy's, and you're barely a teenager!
You should talk to him about what you want, and dont even attempt taking his perverted little mind into consideration. If you're that serious about him, try and make him understand you. You are both young (not to mention, probably naive. no offense, of course, but if you arent he definately is) and you should sort things out a different way.
If he's just going to be a sore loser about it, tell him to jack off. Seriously. If he wants that, tell him to hang out with Pamela and her five sisters (otherwise known as the human hand and the 'adult' TV rental section of the video store).
Dont even get me started on the mental and PHYSICAL things that could happen to you...Making those kinds of desicions that young could potentially end up ruining at least some aspect of your life.
Good luck...boy problems like this are the worst *groans*
2007-08-04 07:17:33 · answer #3 · answered by Seeblob 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey go ask your Father, mother or older brother. At 13yrs old your mind shouldnt be on sex. Think about AIDs, Herpes, having a baby. I'm going to tell you this if he doesnt call you thats good. You have not been dating for 2yrs that is not possible because you are children and stay a child dont have a child.
If he loves you then he will wait until you are MARRIED
2007-08-04 07:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by KB48 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you have been with him for 2 yrs, he should have developed more respect for you. Since he obviously doesn't respect you enough, you needs to let him know you're not going to do that sort of stuff with him. He might try to make you feel like you're a prude, or like he loves you but there is a reason the legal age to be sexually active is 18 - and one of the reasons is because 13 year olds are dealing with too many other emotions to handle the emotions that come with sex.
Stand up for yourself. There is nothing wrong with that! If he is too stupid to realize what he has then he deserves to go be with a skank who will let him talk her into sex. Trust me if he isn't ok with you saying "No" he isn't ok for you to be with. Feel free to email me if you need to talk.
2007-08-04 07:14:55 · answer #5 · answered by Kimi Cabanna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok umm firstly,u guys been together for 2 years.
thats just. well really weird at ur ages
and well its pretty cool
but i dont think u should dump him
he didnt do anything bad to you,i mean,he hasnt been hesitant about having sex before...im sure he is a good guy cuz he waited for like 2 years???
hes a loyal boyfriend i think if u dont wanna have sex,just talk it over and tell him when your ready ull tell him
and eventually he will wait if he truly loves you he will understand but yet again he could say he waited enough,but then thats the point of having a talk.
so talk to him about it and if ur not sure dont do it.
but if u think hes just trying to get to u...i doubt it. 2 years very very loyal guy...if u feel like giving him a chance give him a chance
alright im outs hope i helped! first time helping :D
2007-08-04 07:20:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are underage my friend,if you are the one who know which is more important then you should know it is not right to have sex.You have to think that your boyfriend will change their attitude after doing it with you.
Tell him that maybe when you reach 16 then it will be better.Tell me one thing,do you know that puppy love is the most popular from your age range?Dun allow him to have sex you,if he want brk with you then fine with it.He only think for himself without caring about how you feel.
There will be time when you are mature,you will start to regret what you have done in the past. =X
2007-08-04 07:13:45 · answer #7 · answered by 2nd-hamsterlord 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This boy is WRONG for you sweety, how dare he try to push into having sex, and if he doesnt answer your calls because you wont have sex with him then get rid of him!!! at 13 i was wearing micky mouse tracksuits and watching cartoons i certainly wasnt thinking about having sex!!! girls your age are notready to have sex please trust me on that, you will know when your ready and right
now u are not ready! itshould be a special moment not one you are forced into.
2007-08-04 07:12:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You should leave him. You shouldn't be with a guy who obviously only wants to take advantage of you! Believe me, you deserve so much better than him.
If he really loved you he would never force you to do something you're not ready for.
2007-08-04 07:13:01 · answer #9 · answered by ninaxw 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well if i was a girl just tell him ur not ready and say u 2 r 2 young
2007-08-04 07:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋