Confront them head on and deal with them directly. Do not hide from your fears. It also helps if you can find someone to talk with about them, someone who won't do anything but liosten and when the talking is done, then and only then, offer words of advice or encouragement. All too often our fears are based on imagined scenarios that are being played out in our heads rahter than being based on reality. As humans it can be difficult to see this from an objective viewpoint, so Having someone to talk to can GIVE you the objective insight that you are unable to see for yourself. Give that a try and see if that helps a bit.
Raji the Green Witch
2007-08-04 04:13:43
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answered by Raji the Green Witch 7
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I dunno...the very nature of my fears (dark creepy houses, basements, spiders bigger than a dime, my child running into the street as a speeding car approaches) are pretty much unconfrontable. Mostly because I take precausions to avoid these situations. What is it that you fear exactly? Death, addiction, an abusive spouse....the IRS? Think on it and then re-ask the question. Love in Christ, ~J~
2007-08-04 06:04:01
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answered by Anonymous
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Do your best to remember that fear is an illusory energy founded in lack of knowledge. Once you face the fear, you have knowledge of it, and it no longer becomes fearful. Remember what fear stands for: False Evidence Appearing Real.
Hi Rae!
2007-08-04 11:15:59
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answered by Shihan 5
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Hit 'em with a stick! The only thing I fear are zombie-theists, but thats only because I haven't goten around to hitting them with a stick yet...
2007-08-04 06:00:47
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answered by Anonymous
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make very sure there is not a subconscious fear underneath the one you are wanting to confront, otherwise you will torturing yourself for nothing.
2007-08-04 06:04:29
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answered by single eye 5
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Hit Them Head On, girl!
2007-08-04 06:00:59
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answered by Me 7
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Believe in yourself and know that they are just that - fears. You can overcome them.
2007-08-04 06:00:54
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answered by Grotty Bodkin is not dead!!! 5
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Run
2007-08-04 06:00:42
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answered by Anonymous
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Have your fingers crossed and be polite. x
2007-08-04 06:12:12
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answered by Anonymous
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