Am I too old?

Question

Am a 39 year old male Indian. I got divorced 7 years ago. My marriage lasted for 2 days. She said we are not of same type and am too kiddish.

I am an athletic, successful person. I look 25-26. Am very fit and reasonably average looking.

I live most of the time in the US/Germany. I am currently in India for this week.
What are the chances of me finding and ultimately getting married to a 25 - 30 year old girl? Age/Sex/Nationality/Relegion no bar as long as she and I can decide to live together.

I dont know any girl who is over 30 and single and anyways they dont normally interest me somehow. I have a few girls who are friends, single and in the age group of 22-26. But I avoid getting too close to them due to my age and these are only girls who flirt mildly with me at work.

q1)Would a 25 year old girl who flirts with you accept a guy who is 39. Currently she does not know am 39 and probably thinks am her age.
q2)Else should I try some matrimonial/dating site?
3)Forget it

Answer 1

Hey man you are not at all old. 37 years is nothing I'm 49years still feel like 30years. You should get married to a good, homely girl; age should not be any problem whether she is 25 or 30 what is more important she should feel at ease with you as a person as you are & not thinking about your age & all. I know when you move out in society, clubs, bars etc you can get such girls of this age group, meet them tell them facts about yourself & know about their personal life & choose the best one & get married. Best of Luck Man!

Answer 2

a 25 year old will typically run for the hills if she KNEW you were 39. That is a hell of an age difference. I'm 41. I also THINK I look 26 :)

They flirt because they think you are probably 30, NOT 39!!!


I would probably only want to be married to a resonably average person for two days as well..get some self confidence.

Answer 3

First of all,i feel sorry for you .Marriage lasted for 2 days & that too just bcoz you both are not of the same type-that's terrible.Anyway,whatever happened, happened for good.Well,39yrs is not old.Answer to your first question is that maybe 25yr old girls would accept a guy your age.Ans to your 2nd question is that do try matrimonial or dating site.The other option is go to a nightclub or any pubs &make friends with girls there.

Answer 4

Its you who are thinking that you are old, go see sanjay dutt who is 50 and has a girl friend, salmaan khan who is 42 and has such a sexy girl, saif is 37 and still looks choco boy so it is you who thinks that way, maintain your body and think possitive and see that what you can do and for god sake don't search women of your age, find a girl around 28-32 who can once again make you young

Answer 5

hey oldy love knowns no age,in fact i know that most girls love men who are twice as much older than they are,and if you have the looks and personality to sweep her off doesn't really matter how old you are tell her that,or else ask her to guess how old you are,simple as that or else if you are a old monk in search of a young peacock then i suggest become a monk(kidding)no jokes apart the past doesn't matter so go out there n hunt for the right gal!!!!!

Answer 6

1) Discuss with her about your age and propose for your marriage. 2) Yes 3) No

Answer 7

Just one example when Dilip kumar married he was 44, With Saira Banu she was 22. Half the age.I hope you know them.

Answer 8

q1, avoid such condition
q2, yes, see Times of India, 7, Bahadur shah zafar marg, new delhi, and use computerised match making service.
q3,Think of settling in India only.

Answer 9

salman khan is 42 and you know what he is doing just follow his foot steps.

Answer 10

not at all