I need this year too be awesome. Im going to be a freshman and theres this guy ive liked for 3 years.I honestly never in my life had a boyfriend.This guy that I like. we never talked at all so i need help so i can get the guy i want or at least get a boyfriend(a cute one)
2007-08-03 21:13:23 · 8 answers · asked by :DDtortillas:DD 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here i am
2007-08-03 21:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by viren k 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
lord girly you need to realise that having a boyfriend isnt everything. i went for ages without one now the perfect guy has strolled into my life out of the blue and im estatic... however since it seems you really like this guy and would like to start with relationships i would suggest starting to be confident. it is so difficult to have the confidence to talk to new people, let alone new people you like. the trick is to not care. serioulsly you need to put yourself into a specific frame of mind. you need to realise that, if you screw up, if things go wrong and if people take the mick that it really doesnt matter because their opinion of you will not effect your life in any way, only if you dwell on it and let it. so when you can truly say "hey screw it i couldnt care less if i were dead" then make your move because if you get knocked back then it wont matter. you will probably be upset for a bit but the pain goes away. on the other hand, he might always feel the same and say yes :)
either way good luck
2007-08-04 04:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by natalia121 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you seriously want a cute boyfriend, there are a few things you need to do. Most cute guys either know each other or hang out in the same places. Find one of them, or find out where they hang out.
Get introduced to one (doesn't matter if this is the right one yet) and then get introduced to the group. Maximize your chances of meeting at least one of them that is still single. Make friends, do stuff together, then see which one of them wants to spend more time with you.
I think you can take it from there... Oh and if you are prepared to keep him, make sure you don't let your GPA fall. Guys dig chicks who are smarter and can help them with homework.
2007-08-04 04:20:18 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Unknowable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
,The sooner you learn to assert yourself and be comfortable with yourself... and the sooner you realize that life is about risk management and not being afraid to take a risk, even if if means getting your feelings hurt, and the sooner you realize that no matter what you do, your feelings will get hurt on occasion, and that it is all just part of life, AND, the sooner you learn that only you can help yourself, no one controls you but you, and the sooner you realize that you are broken, just like everyone else in this world.... the sooner you ACCEPT all these true realities, the sooner you will begin to live a happy life.
2007-08-04 04:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I think you should build up the confidence (it may take a while) and walk up to the guy and try to start a conversation, if this fails, then maybe you could try another day, or just tell him how you feel. Good luck!
2007-08-04 04:19:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the guy you like, if you happen to have any classes with him, try talking to him, become his friend.
This way, you can see if he truly is the one you want.
How to get a boyfriend?
Exactly as I said above.
2007-08-04 04:16:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ca'nt u live without a boyfriend ? Is he so important ?
2007-08-04 04:20:41 · answer #7 · answered by Tam 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u like him u like him go for it! if he dont like u 4 who u are u should be with him!!
2007-08-04 04:16:59 · answer #8 · answered by philldillmill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋