he tells me that my boobs are small,im ugley,im fat, he hates me, i hurt him during sex at the end but still wants me to be on top,he is going to go see his mom without me, knowing i have a fear of being alone at night.he checks out other girls when im with him and says he did not do it.is nice to other wemon but not me
2007-08-03 19:05:43 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds like the real prince charming. Dump his sorry ***.
2007-08-03 19:08:10 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Honey, you need to dump this guy and find a real man and one that will treat you the way a man should treat a woman. He does not really care for you or love you. If he did, he would love you just like you are and not ask you to change!! You deserve someone who will respect you and make you feel like the only woman in the world. While he is gone, I would do some serious thinking and when he comes back, end it. Tell him how you feel and how it hurts when he says these things to you and think it would be better if he would find someone else. But, I pity the next woman who has to put up with his belittling words. If he feels this way about you, then ask him why does he bother to stay around? This sounds to me like someone who loves to have a little power trip over someone and make them feel low and in return this makes him feel better. He sounds like a creep and you will be better off with out him. Go to your Mothers or a family member or friends while he is away if you do not like to stay alone. I know I do not either. Stand up to him and tell him you are not going to take it anymore and it is over. If you feel he may become violent when you tell him this, then have someone there with you for support and protection! I wish you the best of Luck and God Bless you. Take care and I wish you a Happy future!!
2007-08-03 19:18:44 · answer #2 · answered by gizmo2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's abuse. Get out of this relationship NOW. You need somebody to love you for you. Don't EVER change yourself for somebody else. To me it sounds like your just being used as a sex object...which is just a bunch of bullshit, this guy is not worth it, he obviously doesn't give a damn about you. Whatever you do don't let him con you with the "I'm sorry, I love you I will never do it again" act. If he did love you he wouldn't say those things or leave you alone without thinking twice about it. Your gonna have to push your feelings for him away and rip him out of your life. I just got out of something similar to this.. its not an easy trip but you can make it. Hang in there.
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2007-08-03 19:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by kxl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would most definately dump him. You shouldn't have to change for anybody but you. So what if he doesn't think you're pretty. That's his problem, not yours. You also shouldn't have to deal with the things he's putting you through. I'm positive you could find someone who will treat you with the respect that you, and every other woman in the world, deserve. People need to stop subjecting themselves to this kind of crap. :[
2007-08-03 19:12:19 · answer #4 · answered by kayla 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is mentaly abusing you, the longer you stay with this jerk the worse it will get, trust me i have had friends and family members go through this. I have seen it. You need to find another bf, one that will treat you alot better because this one is not worth it. You are who you are and im sure you are not ugly and fat and everything he calls you but you will end up thinking soo yourself the longer you stay with him. Find a guy that likes you for you.
2007-08-03 19:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by sassy is sad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never seen your bf but I can honestly tell you that he is one ugly son-of-a b**ch. His goal is to convince you that you cannot get another man because HE is insecure about himself and knows your are pretty. If you realy were unattractive he wouldn't be with you in the first place but since he knows you are pretty he worries you may leave. Therefore his attempts to make you feel bad about yourself - some reverse psychology bullsh**. You can do better.
2007-08-03 19:14:39 · answer #6 · answered by Honey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-13 22:15:00 · answer #7 · answered by blide 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you should dump him. Secondly, if you are to change anything about yourself (looks, view on life, personalitiy traits, etc) you should do it for YOURSELF first, not for some loser. Be proud and happy of who you are. If not then work on what you feel is undesirable to you and that will make you happy. Also if he can't handle the sex, then he is a sissy.
2007-08-03 19:09:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your BFs' mean and cruel for saying those awful things to you.
Find yourself a new BF and dump him. He is ruining you by saying all those mean & vicious things to you.
You deserve so much better in life. Get yourself a kinder, nicer & loving BF. One will love you for you and will accept you as you are. Good luck
2007-08-03 19:16:12 · answer #9 · answered by Warrior Guardian 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you even need to ask? Dump him! Find someone who appreciates you! Don't change yourself, because no matter how pretty or ugly you may be, he'll find something to say that gets under your skin. One of my ex-s was the same. You're better off without him.
2007-08-03 19:08:35 · answer #10 · answered by goo. 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Why are you with him, if he thinks like this about you. If he loved you he wouldn't care about physical attributes. I'm sorry to say that there is nothing you can do to change his mind, but you can get rid of him, and find someone who does appreciate you.
2007-08-03 19:10:22 · answer #11 · answered by Lil's Mommy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋