me and my boyfriend are christians.... and are wondering if it is a sin....????
2007-08-03 18:14:01 · 22 answers · asked by Lorraine 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
No
2007-08-03 18:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you are both Christians there shouldn't even be any discussion, It's wrong whether you are in a relationship or not. To look after a woman to lust after her is adultery. What are strip clubs for but go and lust after the women. You feel offended and rightly so. He's using the excuse that "the other mens wives and girlfriends don't care to cover up the fact that he just wants to go to the strip club. I could never understand why a strip club has so much appeal for a man who is about to get married. Makes no sense.. If he go's regardless of how you feel or what you think, then he is putting his feelings, wants and needs ahead of yours and that's wrong. It take two to make a relationship, not one gives and the other one takes. For Christians, yes, strip clubs are wrong, no matter how you slice it. Even before I became a Christian, I could never see any sense in a woman or a man, getting up in front of a crowd of people and bare their all. It's asinine. I would assess your relationship and find out where you think it's going or where you feel it might go if he continues like he is. There is nothing wrong with you. You're reaction is as it should be. If there is something wrong with him, you or both of you, it's time to sit down and talk it over but him going to a strip club isn't helping matters along and wont if he continues. If he continues to be insensitive then you may want to move on with your life without him.
2016-03-16 06:31:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What brought it up? Did he complain?
Look, you might be a Christian, and you might not be a Christian, I really don't know. Lot's of people ask this kind of question ( the answer is obvious, so it makes me think that you are not really a Christian) .
But if you really are a Christian then you need more time learning about what it means to be one. This question has one of the most obvious answers, one which you ought to know.
So here. Listen to the word of God while you are doing whatever on the internet, okay. You need to be taught! Your problem isn't getting to 'know' your boyfriend, it's much more serious than that!
http://twft.com/?page=C2000
Listen to it!
2007-08-03 18:39:13 · answer #3 · answered by Christian Sinner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God made us all. It is only a sin if it creates lust in your boy friend. As a christian you should have been schooled in modesty so that you would lead no man into sin including your boyfriend. When you play with fire you get burned. Save your self for the man you will marry and let God's joy of sex be learned in the marriage bed. Pray that God will lead you to your husband to be and honor him by keeping yourself pure. If you are meant to be God will only be pleased if you do things in the correct order. Get married first.
2007-08-03 18:29:47 · answer #4 · answered by Curtis 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Depends on how you look naked.
Ba-dum.
Sin is really an inner sense of defiance of your True Self/God/Spirit. If by doing it, you feel like you're negating what you truly want and indulging some part of yourself that you shouldn't indulge, then that's sin and you're probably not doing yourself any favors.
However, if you really just love one another and like being naked together, go for it. God knows I liked being naked with the women I've loved.
2007-08-03 18:45:37 · answer #5 · answered by The Man Comes Around 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This question presents one of the dichtomies of your belief. Something as natural and beautiful as the human body, and to look at it is a sin?!? No way. You two should be enjoying each other and not trying to follow some religious rule that bears no reality on the enjoyment of your own life.
2007-08-03 22:39:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. At best, a sin against the virtue of modesty. At worse, a sin of lust and a temptation to far greater sin.
2007-08-03 18:23:43 · answer #7 · answered by PaulCyp 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No. There is nothing wrong or sinful about the human body. Nudity in and of itself is a wonderful thing.
If you are doing it strictly for lustful intentions then Yes it is.
2007-08-04 07:56:08 · answer #8 · answered by fl_nudie_boy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
According to Christian mythology, "lust" of any kind, whether it be in thought or action form is a "sin". When your boyfriend sees you naked he is mostly likely going to feel this "lust" and will therefore be "sinning". Perhaps, if you are a true disciple, you should refer to the Bible for a more accurate answer. I would think that would be the first place a "Christian" would go to for answers...the Bible.
2007-08-03 18:23:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes. If you are a Christian, why don't you read the KIng James Bible (God's Word) if he's your true love? If you did, you wouldn't be asking such a question.
2007-08-03 18:45:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the bible, the answers are in there and yes it is a sin to look upon each other, before you are married. We are not to view any ones nakedness except our spouse.
2007-08-03 18:45:58 · answer #11 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋