Ok, I live in Arizona, and my boy friend lives in NY, and we have nothing to talk about anymore! Also, we have like a 4 year age difference, so that doesn't help! So, any suggestions on what to talk about?? i REALLY like him. And I know he really likes me.
2007-08-03 16:29:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Arizona?.Move to the New York and you life will full to talk about it.Think about something because you must have something to tell him.Talk is important and keep the flame going.
2007-08-03 16:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, I'm actually going 'thru the same thing. I live in Cali and I'm dating this girl that live in Virgina. Also a 4 year age difference. The age is not a factor, it's all about good conversation. It's all about good conversation at the end of the day with me and if I can't get that... the relationship will only last so long. He/She could only sit there and look beautiful for so long. You know when people say... "Oh! she was amazingly beautiful until she opened her mouth". Maybe you could look pass all of that and just try and lead each conversation. There's a million things to talk about. Wright down an agenda on things to talk about the next time you talk to him if he's that boring on the phone.
The distance works for me. You can make it work as well.
Good luck babe!
2007-08-03 23:52:40 · answer #2 · answered by Donnie Brasco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its true I have never been there before! He does talk once in a while, and yes he does keep to himself! Well just talk about the weather or how things are going, or what he read in the paper if he reads the paper!
2007-08-04 00:04:47 · answer #3 · answered by sexyandsassy_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there, how there weather there has it hit 120 degrees yet ha ha ha ha ha! Don't feel bad, me and my soon to be wife don't hardly speak either it has nothing to do with her, its just me, i never did talk that much or never was one to socialize, i always kept to my self! I plan on making a trip there next Saturday well will be there Sunday or Monday any ways, depends on when we leave Mississippi!
2007-08-03 23:33:25 · answer #4 · answered by mickey_112404 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't think of things to talk about, I would doubt the relationship will work out. But I have seen miracles happen.
2007-08-03 23:32:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you guys just talk too often. Try talking every few days so you save up enough stuff to talk about when you do talk.
2007-08-03 23:31:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever met in person?
and if you cant find things to talk about with your own boyfriend, then maybe you two aren't meant to be together..my boyfriend have been going out for a year and half and we never run out of things to talk about.
2007-08-03 23:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay i would ask about his day and if you were going on a date later on i would ask what you want to do on your date and most of the time it leads to an actual convorsation.
2007-08-03 23:32:16 · answer #8 · answered by erin o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you need a lul filler, just say something random. like "do you like pancakes" lol he'll get a laugh out of something like that if it's completely random. then it'll give you a second to think of something to talk about. haha it's so fun.
2007-08-03 23:33:07 · answer #9 · answered by jme19914fun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont find each other interesting, break up with him, your too far apart, and the age differnece is kinda big...
2007-08-03 23:32:37 · answer #10 · answered by Nicki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋