okay, my gf broke up with me because she said she needed more independence, but then she told me she met someone (not sure if she likes him though based on what she said). Well, after I collected all of my stuff that was at her house, she cried! She said she wants us to remain best friends but I can't do that. I love her too much to watch her date other dudes.
She came by once since we broke up over three weeks ago. She has also emailed a few times. I have not called her at all, or emailed her. We went out for almost ten years.
Tomorrow marks two full weeks since we actually spoke, not counting one time she emailed earlier this week. My question is, is she thinking about me? Does she think she made a mistake? Or is she waiting until I call her? She broke up with me, so I do not feel I should call, but I dont want her to give up on our love
2007-08-03 16:05:53 · 8 answers · asked by sportguy 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i agree with everyone else. ten years! i would be thinking of u for at least the next five years! don't worry, she'll come back
2007-08-04 04:09:31 · answer #1 · answered by M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You two dated for a lot of yrs. then to break up. There was something lacking in the relationship for it to break up after that length of time. I would say to move on & give yourself a chance to find someone else. I'm sure it hurts because of the yrs. that have gone by, but you don't know what the future might just hold for you. I honestly would say not to contact her. You two certainly know one another well enuf if she wanted to contact you, she shouldn't feel shy about it! Things happen for a reason. When one door closes another one opens. Get yourself back into circulation again & just see what's available out there now that you're free to do so. I'm sure she's still thinking about you because you both were "comfort spots" to one another. But I'd say to put the past in the past & go forward. Make a new beginning. You can do it. Just don't waste any more time on the "what ifs" w/her anymore. Accept the fact is over & go forward from now on...You can do it...Best to you...
2007-08-03 23:25:17 · answer #2 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i can't believe she threw away 10 years of relationship. From experience I know that the person initiating the break-up always wants to "stay friends". If you're okay with that, go right ahead but I would suggest you stay away. The hurt will be too deep. I can only imagine what you're going thru. best of luck
2007-08-03 23:10:47 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She already gave up on your "love" when she started going out with the other guy. 10 years of a relationship and you're not married? What's wrong with this picture? Something is not right in your relationship anyway, move on.
2007-08-03 23:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she's thinking of you, but she's also thinking of other guys too. I'm sorry about this.
What's to stop her from dumping you again (if you get back together) when she gets interested in another guy?
Trust your gut though. If you think she's worth the anxiety she's caused you, then keep the door open for her, but don't let her abuse you.
2007-08-03 23:11:53 · answer #5 · answered by Yam King 7 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg!...that broke my heart!..yeess! call her!..dont give up man. 10 years?..thats a blessing
2007-08-03 23:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by Nanda M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't know until you ask her. You dated her long enough to at least be able to ask her that
2007-08-03 23:11:23 · answer #7 · answered by darlorain 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you just cant heck it that she broke up with you this is not about her this is about you and your insecurity thats also why she broke upwith you and guess what she will not be the only one.....
2007-08-03 23:10:02 · answer #8 · answered by ajal 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋