I have a boyfriend I have been with for almost 4 years and we have a beautiful daughter together who is 7 months and he has a Myspace and talks to his ex on it saying he misses her and still loves her and they talk on the phone and send text messages and it seems he is trying to keep his phone a secret he flips out when I touch it or even look at it like he is hiding something.....but I don't know what to say to him it's hard because when we get in arguements he always tells me Quote "and this is why i dont even like you" What do I do??
2007-08-03 16:03:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
obviously you guys aren't having enough sex
2007-08-03 16:06:18 · answer #1 · answered by Adam 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
1. Stop playing wifey to a man you have no commitment with.
2. Stop having kids with a man who hasn't pledged to honor you or even stick around for the rest of your and the kid's life.
3. He's cheating because something is missing from your relationship with him and he doesn't care to fix it.
2007-08-03 16:07:06 · answer #2 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i mean, all the signs are there, just LISTEN and open your eyes. if it looks like he is trying to get out, he probably is. if he tells you he doesnt like you, the fact that you have a child together shouldnt be the reason for you to stay with him. move on with your life, no need to be with someone who doesnt appreciate you.
2007-08-03 16:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by mr b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry for you.
This is very sad.
Why do you allow this?
Look in the phone book for a Couple's Counselor and if he won't go, tell him to move out.
You deserve someone who loves YOU.
2007-08-03 16:08:01 · answer #4 · answered by Yam King 7 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He's a looser. It's not going to get any better. And I think you know what you need to do. So go on with your life and meet someone nice that really cares about you.
2007-08-03 16:12:45 · answer #5 · answered by Rahouel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl you need to move on. he is a wanna be player, and if you have a kid together he should NOT talk to you like that and DEFINTATLy not be talkin to his ex. you need to show him that you don't desserve and leave. and when he says that to you ("and this is why i don't even like you") he just says that cause he knows it will make you fell like crap and stop arguing. you don't disserve that find someone better
2007-08-03 16:09:46 · answer #6 · answered by bballxbaby147 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this guy just doesnt sound like he is in love with u at all.....srry to tell u but it might b time to take the daughter and go.
2007-08-03 16:08:18 · answer #7 · answered by SHABOOYA! 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Kick his F***in a** to the curb are you serious. You are going to put up with this. No way sister, nobody deserves this.
2007-08-03 16:07:06 · answer #8 · answered by jeepiegurl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2007-08-03 16:07:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"People who care for each other do not keep secrets of this magnitude."
2007-08-03 16:11:31 · answer #10 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt love you ok. Get the point.
2007-08-03 16:07:02 · answer #11 · answered by ck_crumb 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋